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Re: How do you cope with breakup heartbreaks

In time the memories fade and pain lessens until its eventually gone. For those more discerning they will just treat it as a part of life experience, and do better. Some will build a wall around themselves while others will continue falling for the same shit over.
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Re: How do you cope with breakup heartbreaks

Head out with friends; everything will be better'
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Re: How do you cope with breakup heartbreaks

focus on work...time will cure everything
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Re: How do you cope with breakup heartbreaks

There is no quick fix. Time does heal everything, that time differs from person to person.

What does help is getting your mind to think about other thing as not the loved one. This can be done by going out with friends, taking up a new hobby etc. One thing I can say is dont get a rebound gf unless you disclose this to the girl.
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Re: How do you cope with breakup heartbreaks

Meditation helps me to bring about a greater sense of self-awareness and acceptance that nothing is permanent in life, including relationships.
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That's so true.
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I been telling myself that, and many a times, one seems to be on the search for true love. Does true love truly exist? Probably not, and when the time comes... One just gotta love the memories and move on.
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Good advice. Up u.
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Re: How do you cope with breakup heartbreaks

I would take my time to be with someone else emotionally but as I am healing, I would make myself distracted by keeping myself busy with my friends and flings. Ventured into sugar life and so far so good. I won't have to invest emotionally except financially.
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Re: How do you cope with breakup heartbreaks

Be strong bro ...all will be better
Last tine was easy...whenever i will remeber my ex will go GL for whoring
If works for u fuck off her memories and replace with new and better ones

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Re: How do you cope with breakup heartbreaks

Get a new hobby to distract yourself. For me I go find whores and fuck them crazy
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Re: How do you cope with breakup heartbreaks

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Get a new hobby to distract yourself. For me I go find whores and fuck them crazy
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Be strong bro ...all will be better
Last tine was easy...whenever i will remeber my ex will go GL for whoring
If works for u fuck off her memories and replace with new and better ones

Happy fuck
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Ok thank you. Now all the whores on high pricing. Will try to see if i can break the chain of going to FL or not.

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I would take my time to be with someone else emotionally but as I am healing, I would make myself distracted by keeping myself busy with my friends and flings. Ventured into sugar life and so far so good. I won't have to invest emotionally except financially.
Thank you, i trying to distract myself. I have no flings, don't know where to find.

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Head out with friends; everything will be better'
Ok, though friends busy. The sad thing is 30s liao not so much female friends.

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Meditation helps me to bring about a greater sense of self-awareness and acceptance that nothing is permanent in life, including relationships.
Ok this does not sound like a good thing for the offspring. Children won't be happy.

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In time the memories fade and pain lessens until its eventually gone. For those more discerning they will just treat it as a part of life experience, and do better. Some will build a wall around themselves while others will continue falling for the same shit over.
Ok hope its gone soon.

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There is no quick fix. Time does heal everything, that time differs from person to person.

What does help is getting your mind to think about other thing as not the loved one. This can be done by going out with friends, taking up a new hobby etc. One thing I can say is dont get a rebound gf unless you disclose this to the girl.
Alright sure. Will try to ask friends. Rebound girlfriend not very possible, so difficult to get gf nowadays, girls in SG these days easily think of any guy as freak. They only want the loudest happening guy.


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do thing that can distract u from ur thoughts like exercise, reading, or play sports. Me if i break up i just go gym, make myself bigger stronger and better. only way to continue is upwards
Thanks hifi!


After breaking up, becoming more nonchalant about things. For example, in dating app the attractive girl doesn't respond, no initiative to ask. I also don't care anymore.

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Ok, though friends busy. The sad thing is 30s liao not so much female friends.
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If you are the one who initiate the breakup but you feel super heartache as well.
if you have close friends, share your pain with them. chat with them whenever the feeling of heartache hits you.

I find that lessen the pain.
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