need advice

[iceboar]

So here's my story, hoping some of you can provide me some wise advice:

I'm in my 20s, married with no children. I didn't really like the idea of having sex so I was the one who rejected my wife.

just recently, there is a new colleague "K" who joined. she is quite a looker and attracted me. I didn't know what was wrong with me but I tried to drop hints to her about how I feel and wanted to advance more, "physically". of course I didn't put it so bluntly, just hints.

So after the conversation, K told me she didn't like it at all and find it rude. now I'm stuck, not knowing what to do.

Should I resign, fearing that she will spread this around. or should I stay on? I have a feeling she already shared this with some colleagues?

[acidicavex]

Sticky but being singaporean soon it will be forgotten... although it might become a topic during their er.... coffee or tea or drinking session topic of joke.

If u can tahan the stare and gossip and tease why resign? What done cannot be undone.

Who know an never know how it might turn out.. u Might not be her cuppa of tea but maybe another one that i provided u are not that choosy.

[autoroam]

TS

you married your wife but refuse to have sex with her
u never once have sex with your wife (she still virgin)
how long have u been married

you met your new colleague and u wanna to have sex with her

u sick... better make appoint with a psychologist

[hamsapkwai]

Originally Posted by iceboar

Should I resign, fearing that she will spread this around. or should I stay on? I have a feeling she already shared this with some colleagues?

hey look at it this way , if she does spread then its good for u, u dont have to break the ice with the rest of the girls there, and whoever is keen will come to u for sex

and anyway u can always deny u ever asked her for sex , its not on record or sms rite?

[Johnbass]

TS, I should intro you to my newbie MILF colleague...
Maybe she will be interested to jiak your banana...


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[iceboar]

Originally Posted by autoroam

TS

you married your wife but refuse to have sex with her
u never once have sex with your wife (she still virgin)
how long have u been married

you met your new colleague and u wanna to have sex with her

u sick... better make appoint with a psychologist

We had sex before but the relationship faded slowly, at least to me.

[loneyheart]

Just b honest apolgise n face it ... say she is too attractive n u r so foolish to drop t hint .... n ask sincerely for her forgiveness ... we r all human n attracted by beauty n do foolish thing tat deeply regrated ..... it will b fine bro

[wayne23416]

TS,

Just in case you dont know how to apologise, wrote something for u..

"Hey K, I'm sorry I was out of line that day. Let me buy you a meal the next time we go for lunch"

If she says no, its ok. Then I guess u have done your part n move on. But if she says, I dont think thats a good idea. Then i think u should just resign since she thinks there's bad blood n she'll probably remember it half the time..

[Edyta]

TS, fr a female pov thts ok. Most women are used to men dropping hints. She might share witha few others n such gossips dont stay on for long. It would soon be forgotten. Its not as if u molested her. Merely expressing attraction n wanting more is no big deal. She has the choice to say no thanks. Society is also more forgiving for men. Men do this at most they say u are cheeky, flirt etc. Women who does this people use horrible names on her. So relax. No need to resign.
As for your lack of desire on your wife. U might wana consider counselling or find out whats the root cause. You n her are in a marriage not merely bf/gf. All the best!

[Yakuza]

TS ts ts ts ... wat can I say .. at least u r honest enough to admit ur home and office life here .. chill bro .. don't make the same mistake again .. its ur bread n butter.. make no mistake abt it, may spread to ur next careers path if u ever intent to switch job..

One thing u need to do is to keep a low profile and keep a distance from her as much as possible unless work related.
Guess u heard of.. Silence is Golden ...

Not sure?? than u observe if things are leveling off or escalating .. and react as nec .. as wat all the bros here adviced .. sometimes u let time heal is the best medicine ..

[Yakuza]

Originally Posted by Johnbass

TS, I should intro you to my newbie MILF colleague...
Maybe she will be interested to jiak your banana...


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JB sure knows how to soften the atmosphere n bring some laughs ..

I Love tis sub-forum section and may wan to own it .. lol ...just a thot ..

[Johnbass]

Originally Posted by Yakuza

JB sure knows how to soften the atmosphere n bring some laughs ..

I Love tis sub-forum section and may wan to own it .. lol ...just a thot ..

If you own this sub-forum, I sure support!
Can shunbian waive my moderation here? lol

[firejalan]

That is y ... Don't eat n sh*t at e same place..
No matter how much I want to fling w my colleagues, I always keep a distance...

TS just lie low n it will blow over..

[iceboar]

Thanks all bros n sis for your advice. So from wad I gather, I should probably lay low about it.

Its quite disheartening to see that in the past, she used to keep coming to me and talk about anything under the sky. But nowadays, she hardly comes within 100m radius near me.. if I could turn back the time, I would rather keep it to myself.

[Edyta]

Originally Posted by iceboar

Thanks all bros n sis for your advice. So from wad I gather, I should probably lay low about it.

Its quite disheartening to see that in the past, she used to keep coming to me and talk about anything under the sky. But nowadays, she hardly comes within 100m radius near me.. if I could turn back the time, I would rather keep it to myself.

Whats done cannot be undone

If she is mature person, just let it be for a while. She would come back to talk n interact as a colleague again
If she is rather immature, u really need to keep your distance to protect yourself.