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Old 18-03-2021, 12:00 AM
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Re: Ask a retired SB/FL anything 😛

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Ask anything right?
Answer anything?
I may have missed it in the thread. Wanna ask which FL u were, which agent and what nick u used? And what was your damage? Just wanna know if I’m reading about someone I did...
Wonder if that’s a legitimate question at all.
Hehe I wasn't on sammyboyforum as a FL under an agent. I never knew how.. agents operate and I didn't trust them enough to let them know my identity or take photos of me.

I operated freelance. Did it on sbf and locanto on-off. Was lucky.
Hence I don't cater to much clients.
My damage was anything from $300 - $1000 lol.

Think SD was the most reasonable at $2k/mth for 4 meetups ba.

That said i think you guys have alotttttt of choices.
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Old 18-03-2021, 12:03 AM
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Re: Ask a retired SB/FL anything 😛

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Relationships are hard enough when you meet the right person. Meeting someone wrong is just so much worse.

If love happens great. Otherwise there's no harm or shame in earning money from being good at escorting or sex. Won't say sugaring or escorting should be a profession to be encouraged but it certainly shouldn't be shamed or stigmatised against. Much more honest living earned that way than say a loan shark runner or something.

Theoretically as a girl, if you were to hire a male escort, what kind of criteria or person would he have to be to make you wanna hire him? And what would you hire him for?
I guess some girls would also want the boyfriend experience and pampering and wild sex I'm really not most girls so please don't ask me hahaha.

Based on my perspective
- I am apparently more valuable because I can talk and discuss business and their issues @ work if needed. I am educated / knowledgeable at a few industries which usually surprises them (lol) because I read up.

- I hold no judgement and want to have fun, money is nice but money can't buy everything. I guess thy want something genuine and real instead of faking the moans.

- I like sex. There you go!

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Old 19-03-2021, 11:49 AM
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Re: Ask a retired SB/FL anything 😛

Interesting thread. Can you answer the following questions:

How do you distinguish between sex and love? When you were an FL, I am assuming that you met a lot of different clients. Do you block out all your emotions, and just focus on the physical and the money?

Having been with so many different men commercially, can you ever fall in love again or will you feel guilty and unfair to the one that you are seriously dating because of your past?
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Old 21-03-2021, 12:09 AM
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Re: Ask a retired SB/FL anything 😛

Hello! If you read the thread I wasn't doing it full time and it was pretty much ad hoc (i shiok, i do, not shiok, dont do).

Also I vet who i go ahead w.. so I'd say the clients i meet would be people i'd be comfortable with at the very least

Tbh, I usually head into this or go into a SB/SD after a breakup or when I entirely gave up on r/s as a whole..

Yes, it is possible to fall in love w the guy.
No it isn't that easy (for me) to separate out money and physical.

Hmmm I'd say for me I've learnt the hard way and try my best to remind myself that the money draws a line, so that means the guy could pretty much go for anyone, and if the guy (eg a long term SD) doesnt want me anymore its totally fine, and move on

I think we all have secrets we don't tell to our future partner, and we all evolve w time. I wouldn't want a partner who's so keen on the past and not the present me. I wouldn't question how many ladies he has bed, so neither should he.

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Interesting thread. Can you answer the following questions:

How do you distinguish between sex and love? When you were an FL, I am assuming that you met a lot of different clients. Do you block out all your emotions, and just focus on the physical and the money?

Having been with so many different men commercially, can you ever fall in love again or will you feel guilty and unfair to the one that you are seriously dating because of your past?
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Old 26-03-2021, 04:41 PM
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Re: Ask a retired SB/FL anything 😛

not bad the thread run very long anyway not sure anyone ask. But as a ex SB/FL also have you ever so coincidentally meet up a past clients or SD during a formal moment example attending your bf gathering be it home or social.
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Old 27-03-2021, 11:55 PM
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Re: Ask a retired SB/FL anything 😛

Because I'm as bored as you guys are

I haven't met a SD or past client in a formal setting, but then again my work industry is vastly different previously and the chances are incredibly low.

Have you met your FL in a formal setting before?
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not bad the thread run very long anyway not sure anyone ask. But as a ex SB/FL also have you ever so coincidentally meet up a past clients or SD during a formal moment example attending your bf gathering be it home or social.
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Old 28-03-2021, 10:48 AM
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Re: Ask a retired SB/FL anything 😛

I ever once met a FL i had engaged quite a few times at a hawker centre about 10 years ago. At first I couldn't stop looking at her direction to confirm. But she was with her family. I guess she saw me looking at her table constantly and came over to say hi and break the awkwardness. I just exchange pleasantries and quickly cut the conversation by saying see her next time, so as not to arouse any suspicion to her family members. (Wonder how she is doing now?)
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Old 29-03-2021, 12:30 AM
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Re: Ask a retired SB/FL anything 😛

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Hello! If you read the thread I wasn't doing it full time and it was pretty much ad hoc (i shiok, i do, not shiok, dont do).

Also I vet who i go ahead w.. so I'd say the clients i meet would be people i'd be comfortable with at the very least

Tbh, I usually head into this or go into a SB/SD after a breakup or when I entirely gave up on r/s as a whole..

Yes, it is possible to fall in love w the guy.
No it isn't that easy (for me) to separate out money and physical.

Hmmm I'd say for me I've learnt the hard way and try my best to remind myself that the money draws a line, so that means the guy could pretty much go for anyone, and if the guy (eg a long term SD) doesnt want me anymore its totally fine, and move on

I think we all have secrets we don't tell to our future partner, and we all evolve w time. I wouldn't want a partner who's so keen on the past and not the present me. I wouldn't question how many ladies he has bed, so neither should he.
yes agree. no point asking abt the past. enjoy the present, hope u find the one which can make u happy
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Old 29-03-2021, 02:18 AM
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yes agree. no point asking abt the past. enjoy the present, hope u find the one which can make u happy
Agree. No point harping on the past wounds especially.
Moving forward would be the better option.
Me too would never probe or invade his privacy and space.
Everybody has their own little secrets. We should always respect that .
You chose the current person, then be present at the moment..
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Re: Ask a retired SB/FL anything 😛

Not for me but have heard tales of such that why i am curious. but i did however met a FB several time as agree if we were to meet each other just pretend we don't know each other


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Because I'm as bored as you guys are

I haven't met a SD or past client in a formal setting, but then again my work industry is vastly different previously and the chances are incredibly low.

Have you met your FL in a formal setting before?
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Re: Ask a retired SB/FL anything 😛

Hi Ponybabe, was it easy or difficult to disassociate love and sex? I'm sure you would have started with the mentality that it's just a job, but were there times when you had really nice clients who ticked all the boxes for you? Maybe a tinge of "what if ...?"
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A professional will always separate it. Because the consequences is just too much to bear. True?
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Re: Ask a retired SB/FL anything 😛

Hello! I wasn't a professional so.. it was hard la.

I mean sometimes there's some that really tick all the boxes.

Just maybe right guy wrong time / wrong place to meet.

So that means.. still wrong :>

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Hi Ponybabe, was it easy or difficult to disassociate love and sex? I'm sure you would have started with the mentality that it's just a job, but were there times when you had really nice clients who ticked all the boxes for you? Maybe a tinge of "what if ...?"
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Hello! I wasn't a professional so.. it was hard la.

I mean sometimes there's some that really tick all the boxes.

Just maybe right guy wrong time / wrong place to meet.

So that means.. still wrong :>
Wherether it’s right or wrong u will know deep inside u where u think the what if part ....

Same with me in a way .... she was my FB but it’s that was - right gal wrong time n wrong place to meet...if only ....
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Wherether it’s right or wrong u will know deep inside u where u think the what if part ....

Same with me in a way .... she was my FB but it’s that was - right gal wrong time n wrong place to meet...if only ....
The what if's in life aplenty eh

Hope they serve a purpose in reminding us to try before regretting in future
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