Girlfriend doesn't wants sex. Is it normal?

[masked]

We used to have lots of it. But recently it just died down, maybe not even once a fortnight, 9 out of 10 times got rejected. (Tried etc) Used to get bj and all but now she say she dont like. Doggy say stomach pain so only mis style. But im quite sure shes not cheating because we stay together.

Any bros here experienced this?

[I Love Boobs]

She's fucking someone else.
Most likely her boss, to get promotions.
Extremely common in SG... hey, it's a culture here!

[9roary9]

maybe she's getting lots of it in her work place from her boss or male colleagues?

[Timoshadowstep]

That means attraction level die down. Very dangerous sign in my opinion.

[Rickey]

Originally Posted by TomMAffolter

how long you been togther?..if 5+ yrs then its the boredom/marriage thing, if not then she using deprivation of sex as a tool to manipulate you, or she never was interested in sex with you but merely used that to attarct you for other reasons like loneliness/financial support, now that she has you she dont need to have sex...eitehr way if you each other short time then this is unusual for a gal if she genuinely interested and sexually attracted to you

v. well analysed bro .. all the possibilities.. kudos to you

[snooker]

Originally Posted by masked

We used to have lots of it. But recently it just died down, maybe not even once a fortnight, 9 out of 10 times got rejected. (Tried etc) Used to get bj and all but now she say she dont like. Doggy say stomach pain so only mis style. But im quite sure shes not cheating because we stay together.

Any bros here experienced this?

Not interested in you anymore, attracted to someone else (may or may not cheat)

Women when they like someone else, they can go for long period of time without sex (just holding it in and hoping for it to happen with the one they like)

[masked]

thanks bros for the advices. i highly doubt its at work or attraction died down because she never exhibit behaviours otherwise.

Talked with a female friend and she said it could be due to pain, low sex drive as they get older, medical reasons or maybe even threshold limit (like KPI)

[I Love Boobs]

Originally Posted by masked

thanks bros for the advices. i highly doubt its at work or attraction died down because she never exhibit behaviours otherwise.

Talked with a female friend and she said it could be due to pain, low sex drive as they get older, medical reasons or maybe even threshold limit (like KPI)

Emotions will often conflict with logic.
I've seen so many professional SG girls sleeping around to progress their careers, or "upgrading" their boyfriends..
Loyalty does not exist, their only loyalty is to money.
Sometimes, these girls will eventually get played out and may be left high and dry.
Most of the rest of the time, some SG male arse will marry them, get left behind when a better offer comes along and end up paying alimony.
Like yours truly..

This will occur in spite of:
- a holy christian background
- an Ivy league education
- going to the the best all-girls school in town
- having respectable professional careers

Humans lie. They always do.
But bodies don't lie..
The only time when she's NOT sleeping around at work or elsewhere, or met someone new, is if she is upset with you...
For example, if she discovered your stash of homemade GAY porn, or your Kelantan clinic STD results and appointment card...

Take care and embrace the reality!

[HeLovesMe]

Originally Posted by masked

We used to have lots of it. But recently it just died down, maybe not even once a fortnight, 9 out of 10 times got rejected. (Tried etc) Used to get bj and all but now she say she dont like. Doggy say stomach pain so only mis style. But im quite sure shes not cheating because we stay together.

Any bros here experienced this?

TS, Stomach pain denotes she may have unknown health issues. Pls bring your girlfriend to see the doctor for health check up.

https://m.timesofindia.com/life-styl...y/63747812.cms

[Rickey]

Originally Posted by I Love Boobs

Emotions will often conflict with logic.
I've seen so many professional SG girls sleeping around to progress their careers, or "upgrading" their boyfriends..
Loyalty does not exist, their only loyalty is to money.
Sometimes, these girls will eventually get played out and may be left high and dry.
Most of the rest of the time, some SG male arse will marry them, get left behind when a better offer comes along and end up paying alimony.
Like yours truly..

This will occur in spite of:
- a holy christian background
- an Ivy league education
- going to the the best all-girls school in town
- having respectable professional careers

Humans lie. They always do.
But bodies don't lie..
The only time when she's NOT sleeping around at work or elsewhere, or met someone new, is if she is upset with you...
For example, if she discovered your stash of homemade GAY porn, or your Kelantan clinic STD results and appointment card...

Take care and embrace the reality!

Think it's quite true.. tend to agree with wat bro ILB said above.. many of these gals look for money or position in exchange for sex...sigh..are they really so financially strapped that they need to go that far ??

[thedevil666]

usually only wives will cut down the sex for reasons other than sleeping with other people.

for gf, the answer is pretty obvious. u are being replaced physically and emotionally. prepare for the inevitable.

[FreebiezWanker]

She fucking someone else. My ex used to tell her bf shit like this when we just started.

[lilmei]

She's fucking someone else. Deny all you want if it makes you feel better. U can make her open legs to you and enjoy as long as you can or she reached limit and break off with you. Accelerate the inevitable. Don't waste your time.

[winstonlyj]

She's not into you anymore.

[Phantomrogers13]

Hey bro, she is not into you already and may be having sex with other guys outside. One of my ex was like tat. We were having sex maybe once a week till one day she don't want any with me. Then suddenly one day she wanted sex urgently and without condom.To me it's a red flag cuz we always use condom. So I keep rejecting and ask why. She finally broke down crying say some other guys fuck her raw and came inside her. So if she get pregnant she can say it's my baby cuz I came raw inside her.