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Old 06-11-2016, 01:43 PM
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Re: The one you marry, is not the one you loved most?

Love is a battlefield. How many of us can say we truly married the one
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Re: The one you marry, is not the one you loved most?

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Love is a battlefield. How many of us can say we truly married the one
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Re: The one you marry, is not the one you loved most?

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Very well said
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Re: The one you marry, is not the one you loved most?

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can u handle the truth??

our true love is $, but we're married to our dead end jobs
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Re: The one you marry, is not the one you loved most?

thats why till now not married yet, as i cannot find one that i truly love
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Re: The one you marry, is not the one you loved most?



You could have a change of heart, if you would only change your mind
Instead of slamming down the phone girl, for the hundredth time
I got your number on my wall, but I ain't gonna make that call
When divided we stand baby, united we fall

Got the time got a chance gonna make it
Got my hands on your heart gonna take it
All I know I can't fight this flame
You could have a change of heart, if you would only change your mind
Cause I'm crazy 'bout you baby, time after time

Without you
One night alone Is like a year without you baby
Do you have a heart of stone
Without you
Can't stop the hurt inside
When love and hate collide

I don't wanna fight no more, I don't know what we're fighting for
When we treat each other baby, like an act of war
I could tell a million lies and it would come as no surprise
When the truth is like a stranger, hits you right between the eyes

There's a time and a place and a reason
And I know I got a love to believe in
All I know got to win this time

[Repeat Chorus]

[SOLO]

You could have a change of heart, if you would only change your mind
Cause I'm crazy 'bout you baby...Crazy...Crazy

Without you
One night alone
Is like a year without you baby
Do you have a heart of stone
Without you
One night alone
Is like a year without you baby
If you have a heart at all
Without you
Can't stop the hurt inside
When love and hate collide
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Re: The one you marry, is not the one you loved most?

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You could have a change of heart, if you would only change your mind
Instead of slamming down the phone girl, for the hundredth time
I got your number on my wall, but I ain't gonna make that call
When divided we stand baby, united we fall

Got the time got a chance gonna make it
Got my hands on your heart gonna take it
All I know I can't fight this flame
You could have a change of heart, if you would only change your mind
Cause I'm crazy 'bout you baby, time after time

Without you
One night alone Is like a year without you baby
Do you have a heart of stone
Without you
Can't stop the hurt inside
When love and hate collide

I don't wanna fight no more, I don't know what we're fighting for
When we treat each other baby, like an act of war
I could tell a million lies and it would come as no surprise
When the truth is like a stranger, hits you right between the eyes

There's a time and a place and a reason
And I know I got a love to believe in
All I know got to win this time

[Repeat Chorus]

[SOLO]

You could have a change of heart, if you would only change your mind
Cause I'm crazy 'bout you baby...Crazy...Crazy

Without you
One night alone
Is like a year without you baby
Do you have a heart of stone
Without you
One night alone
Is like a year without you baby
If you have a heart at all
Without you
Can't stop the hurt inside
When love and hate collide
Good to see you are still around bro
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Re: The one you marry, is not the one you loved most?

I didn't marry the person I loved, I married the one I can live with

the one I loved, kept breaking my heart, cheating, lying, was selfish, self centred, but I felt the most for her, hurt the deepest for her, make me feel small, and that the whole relationship was about her and her needs.

so I chose the one that I could live with and have some peace in my life

life is not just about my feelings and what I want.

there are other obligations I need to focus on too. My parents, my career, my loved ones who love me

I love the one who didn't love me, but loved herself, so I married the one I could live with and still have my dignity and part of myself.
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Re: The one you marry, is not the one you loved most?

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thats why till now not married yet, as i cannot find one that i truly love
Most of us are these way too
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Re: The one you marry, is not the one you loved most?

Well said.

Loving someone doesn’t mean u must be tgt with her.

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I didn't marry the person I loved, I married the one I can live with

the one I loved, kept breaking my heart, cheating, lying, was selfish, self centred, but I felt the most for her, hurt the deepest for her, make me feel small, and that the whole relationship was about her and her needs.

so I chose the one that I could live with and have some peace in my life

life is not just about my feelings and what I want.

there are other obligations I need to focus on too. My parents, my career, my loved ones who love me

I love the one who didn't love me, but loved herself, so I married the one I could live with and still have my dignity and part of myself.
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Old 09-04-2018, 10:34 AM
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Re: The one you marry, is not the one you loved most?

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i think its common for couples to reduce/decrease sex frequency as time goes by. Everyday we juggle with other issues like work, stress and problems. Marriage is like owning a business, it requires constant commitment and work.

love and passion fades but try to uphold it. I see some of my bros leave their wives due to quarrels and lack of sex, etc... get hitched to another girl who gives awesome sex from the start only to end up in the same loop again (reduced sex frequency, quarrels, expectations).

I myself have been giving most of the time and my OC doesnt really do much these days. We got our own stress and work problems, so give and take. Its a companionship to the end.
One of the most sensible and thoughtful comments written here.

A question for all married couples here.

What is the difference between work and marriage?

In work, you make a commitment to learn, problem solve fast and get rewarded for it continuously (with bonus, new titles, etc). The rewards are tangible, you can see and feel them and you're adored by others if you're a good leader, teacher, etc. That's why we work 'smart' at work.

Why doesn't a similar logic apply to love? Because if sex and love is the only rewards than you're missing the subtext of what makes relationships function better.

As freeze already said, it requires you to shift your mind and not get lazy. Because similar to work if you get lazy - you get no rewards and indirectly you don't learn anything new to push yourself; which is indirectly bad not just for work, but for marriage.

Romance is something that starts in the mind first, not in your pants (even if you're married). I'm not saying it's easy - but I'm suggesting why it's easier to look elsewhere and say 'this is how life is'.

Bullshit, I don't believe that. You create your own circumstance, especially when there's a word called 'divorce' or you can quit from your job; regardless of what your responsibilties are.

For your own sanity (and quite possibly for the sanity of your partner), if things don't work out, at least draw up the courage to leave and start a new - but please don't go through the same cycle as freeze mentioned.
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I didn't marry the person I loved, I married the one I can live with

the one I loved, kept breaking my heart, cheating, lying, was selfish, self centred, but I felt the most for her, hurt the deepest for her, make me feel small, and that the whole relationship was about her and her needs.

so I chose the one that I could live with and have some peace in my life

life is not just about my feelings and what I want.

there are other obligations I need to focus on too. My parents, my career, my loved ones who love me

I love the one who didn't love me, but loved herself, so I married the one I could live with and still have my dignity and part of myself.
Very nice contribution. Thank you 🙏🏻
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Re: The one you marry, is not the one you loved most?

Used to think i married the love of my life. Now after uncovering some lies, I regret marrying him.

No love, no feeling, no interest anymore.
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Used to think i married the love of my life. Now after uncovering some lies, I regret marrying him.

No love, no feeling, no interest anymore.
It's sad but true, many regret after marrying...not sure why tis shd be so....why can't things be known b4 signing on the dotted line ?...sigh
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It's sad but true, many regret after marrying...not sure why tis shd be so....why can't things be known b4 signing on the dotted line ?...sigh
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