Anyone else feels lonely

[Dignified69]

Originally Posted by Footman

Very normal especially when the other half is a local bred singaporean

Don't know if it will make you feel better or worse but other country one oso have the same problem. Ask me. Married to uni sweetheart. Have 2 kids in secondary and helper and condo and all the material things. Wife is low libido, conservative and not really into womanly things and driven working woman. Cooking at home stopped even before the first kiddo popped out and never started even after the second left the oven.


Anger, frustration, lack of communication led me to GL where I am based for 16 years. Menopause now (it was actually on pause since 2 decades). Numerous rounds of couples counselling has not led to expected results to the extent that the situation has taken its toll on mental health.

But what to do this is life and a small problem when looking at the big picture. What I would do to not feel guilty about my GL escapades. Or maybe actually now have a FB. With age Sex becomes a companionship thing.

Just ranting. But to all bro out there, try to solve this early on, if not, my fate will be your destiny.

[Datingafter35]

I am 45.

Failed my CISSP exam.

Recovered from a 2-year-old stomach disease and I was saved by God as he sent an angel into my life and also broke my heart.

Right now I only hope I get a better job, raise my payscale above $5k.

Get a 2 brm bto. I don't think I can be a ciso but I'll try.

Divorced. No kid. Missed really getting married but not in financial sense to do that now.

[Pictionary]

Originally Posted by Datingafter35

I am 45.

Failed my CISSP exam.

Recovered from a 2-year-old stomach disease and I was saved by God as he sent an angel into my life and also broke my heart.

Right now I only hope I get a better job, raise my payscale above $5k.

Get a 2 brm bto. I don't think I can be a ciso but I'll try.

Divorced. No kid. Missed really getting married but not in financial sense to do that now.

CISSP is a different thing. Did u see this admin here hardly share any useful technical knowledge here, instead talk logical sense which means nothing at all. And he corrected my saying in english which also means nothing at all. Web development, database and controller programming are different however they are similar in nature. Did u ever hear admin ever share anything proper at all?

So do you have any fundamental knowledge in IT administration or IT network at school? Or working experience? Maybe you have, maybe u dun, maybe you gei gei. Nobody knows except yourself. I dun think it is really useful for me to know unless you share further details.

Even a bei lai ginna, leng lui chao ah lian ginna programmer zhai ya cisco, dua kang cisco, say can che lai che ker on google, xi google xi peng you.

[Datingafter35]

Originally Posted by Pictionary

CISSP is a different thing. Did u see this admin here hardly share any useful technical knowledge here, instead talk logical sense which means nothing at all. And he corrected my saying in english which also means nothing at all. Web development, database and controller programming are different however they are similar in nature. Did u ever hear admin ever share anything proper at all?

So do you have any fundamental knowledge in IT administration or IT network at school? Or working experience? Maybe you have, maybe u dun, maybe you gei gei. Nobody knows except yourself. I dun think it is really useful for me to know unless you share further details.

Even a bei lai ginna, leng lui chao ah lian ginna programmer zhai ya cisco, dua kang cisco, say can che lai che ker on google, xi google xi peng you.

Lol. I have to apologize. I always go into this when I don't know what to share.

I just got heartbroken but I got a one or two female contacts from Tinder and CMD on hand.

I blew off 9 interviews.

I can afford to burn about $1400 a month for 4 fks a week for a local FL but I'm not going to do that.

Fk. I miss her.

[Pictionary]

Originally Posted by Datingafter35

Lol. I have to apologize. I always go into this when I don't know what to share.

I just got heartbroken but I got a one or two female contacts from Tinder and CMD on hand.

I blew off 9 interviews.

I can afford to burn about $1400 a month for 4 fks a week for a local FL but I'm not going to do that.

Fk. I miss her.

Network not easy. You may have to break all ties with your local FL. What if you not happy, tell everything to her for the sake of fucking then she tell the whole world?
Sometimes this network industry is not applicable for everyone, even if i urgently need $, i dun want to advance this career in my retirement.

You got see admin ever comment here at least a bit at all or not? No job okay, you go enter network for a living, then you come here kao pei, worth it or not? You got experience sammyhunk add salt to your bleeding wound and continuously kao pei kao pu your wounds or not?

Join other industries, why enter this industry if you do not know what is the end? It is like the police investigation officer everyday sell double sided face in public and por govt. It is not damn easy okay?

[jackjackoff]

Originally Posted by Dignified69

Don't know if it will make you feel better or worse but other country one oso have the same problem. Ask me. Married to uni sweetheart. Have 2 kids in secondary and helper and condo and all the material things. Wife is low libido, conservative and not really into womanly things and driven working woman. Cooking at home stopped even before the first kiddo popped out and never started even after the second left the oven.


Anger, frustration, lack of communication led me to GL where I am based for 16 years. Menopause now (it was actually on pause since 2 decades). Numerous rounds of couples counselling has not led to expected results to the extent that the situation has taken its toll on mental health.

But what to do this is life and a small problem when looking at the big picture. What I would do to not feel guilty about my GL escapades. Or maybe actually now have a FB. With age Sex becomes a companionship thing.

Just ranting. But to all bro out there, try to solve this early on, if not, my fate will be your destiny.

Bro your situation seems like a close friend of mine. Have you consider seeking doctor help in terms of libidoo issue or is it because of vaginal pain? If sex part addressed, will you be happy? Or there's still GFE lacking?

These are difficult questions need deep introspection happy to help a bro out

[Pictionary]

Originally Posted by Datingafter35

Lol. I have to apologize. I always go into this when I don't know what to share.

I just got heartbroken but I got a one or two female contacts from Tinder and CMD on hand.

I blew off 9 interviews.

I can afford to burn about $1400 a month for 4 fks a week for a local FL but I'm not going to do that.

Fk. I miss her.

Originally Posted by KinksHunter

It sounds like you're going through a challenging time,
and it's important to remember that you're not alone in facing these kinds of feelings.
Many individuals have experienced similar situations and emotions in their relationships after starting a family.
It's not uncommon for the dynamic between partners to shift when a new child enters the picture, as the focus and demands can be overwhelming.

Seeking counseling was a positive step, and while it might not have led to immediate changes,
remember that progress in relationships takes time.
It's essential to maintain open communication with your wife about how you're feeling.
Express your emotions and concerns, but also listen to her perspective to better understand her point of view.

Balancing the demands of parenting, work, and maintaining a healthy relationship can be quite challenging.
It might be helpful to continue counseling and explore strategies together that could improve your connection and balance responsibilities.
Remember that seeking support from friends, family,
or support groups can also provide you with a sense of understanding and camaraderie from those who have faced similar situations.

Every relationship is unique, and there's no one-size-fits-all solution.
But with patience, empathy, and ongoing effort from both partners,
it's possible to work towards a more fulfilling and balanced relationship.

You consult this KinksHunter for further advice, see what answer you get in return. Ang moh toh xi ang moh, mai sng sng. Boh yong siu, yi peng tang toh xi yi peng tang. Dun bother to reply, go consult ang moh pmets or school dropout stinkapolangs if insist in english.