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thanks bro. this made me a more clear headed. i guess its my first time dating someone with this age gap and i compared to the working age women i used to date. this really helped me. would up u if i could haha
glad to see you are now clear headed bro. we need to remain clear headed. decisions made irrationally usually leads to regrets.
this is good news, but beware dont let this cloud you. i have experience ex gf draining me but i just couldnt give up coz the sex was good and frequent as well. after awhile i realised it wasnt love. it was obsession addiction to the sex. my other dating partners after her although sex not as good, the times spent were happier and i was not drained.
we when go dating, i pay for all the food transport and some shopping of course we shop cheap stuff
not support the living financially etc
when she not with me she spends her own money from part time work
i wouldnt think so much ah... like other bros mentioned, she is infact not financially strong, you being the only working full time one, its actually ok ah. and you all shop cheap stuff. i same situation as you bro, but i think its ok to pay when we go out together. gentleman ma some you cannot expect her to pay when she not yet able to support herself right ?
we when go dating, i pay for all the food transport and some shopping of course we shop cheap stuff
not support the living financially etc
when she not with me she spends her own money from part time work
that's pretty the norm with studying partimer. since you mention 'some' shopping, not all, so still sustainable by yourself. hope you receive awesome birthday/anniversary gifts in return. she could be saving up for those.
this is good news, but beware dont let this cloud you. i have experience ex gf draining me but i just couldnt give up coz the sex was good and frequent as well. after awhile i realised it wasnt love. it was obsession addiction to the sex. my other dating partners after her although sex not as good, the times spent were happier and i was not drained.
it's hard to differentiate love and lust when you're in it. in my case, i needed the "slap" to wake up and see reality.
i wouldnt think so much ah... like other bros mentioned, she is infact not financially strong, you being the only working full time one, its actually ok ah. and you all shop cheap stuff. i same situation as you bro, but i think its ok to pay when we go out together. gentleman ma some you cannot expect her to pay when she not yet able to support herself right ?
this also make sense. hope she remember your good will tho and not fuck around somewhere else.
Why are you with a younger partner? Because you like her youth and beauty and energy right? Why do you think she is with you, an older partner. Because she values stability and financial resources. You both bring your assets to the table. If you withdraw yours, what are you really offering? That is the transactional way of looking at it, which by your post is your view.
Another way of looking at it is each partner brings what they have to offer and open heartedly share it with the one they love. In that case you dont keep track of spending especially on things you also enjoy doing. This is a much happier way to live.
Totally agree with you bro, it takes 2 hands to clap. you both benefit and "make use of each other"
I am in a relationship with a partner way younger than me.
So financially I am of course more able to spend and I am working and she still studying.
But after about a month or so into the relationship, I feel like me paying for everything getting taken for granted.
How do I handle this situation without getting into a fight and breaking up?
Handling financial differences in a relationship requires open communication and understanding. Instead of approaching the situation with accusations, initiate a calm and honest conversation with your partner. Express your feelings and concerns about the financial dynamic, emphasizing that you want to find a solution that works for both of you.
Listen to your partner's perspective and try to understand their feelings as well. Together, explore options to balance the financial aspect, such as setting a budget, alternating payment responsibilities, or finding ways for your partner to contribute non-financially.
Avoid blaming or making your partner feel guilty, and focus on finding a compromise that strengthens your relationship. Remember, healthy relationships thrive on open communication and mutual respect for each other's needs and circumstances.
I am in a relationship with a partner way younger than me.
So financially I am of course more able to spend and I am working and she still studying.
But after about a month or so into the relationship, I feel like me paying for everything getting taken for granted.
How do I handle this situation without getting into a fight and breaking up?
Back to real sensible talk, ignoring unnecssarily distractions. She may grow up and then have her own independent mind, maybe she is playing with you, maybe not. Maybe she is using you, big head small head? I tink also as again apply chicken farm theory, never try never know her real self.
Just let the nature goes its way. If happen to breakup, just break. If can maintain, just continue.
Whatever it is, as long as she isnt fucking her classmate or social circle while dating you is already a big win
Young beautiful and maybe a smart chick who is upfront about sex with an older man for a little bit of restaurant/ shopping money is very hard to come by
14-07-2023, 12:19 AM
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