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Old 07-04-2008, 09:55 AM
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Need help urgently ...

Hi bros,

I need help urgently in terms of legal and advisers/counsellors.

You see, I have divorsed with my ex-wife and we agreed to settle for a joint custody of both our kids. However, I know one of them is not mine and the other is mine. I want to remove the name of the one who do not belong to me and also I need to fight for full custody of my real son.

I am really desperate for help and have been searching for aids, but couldn't find any. If any bros here can help me please. I am here not to seek sex related stuffs, but instead because one of my friend told me about this site and the great people here with vast experiences.

I do hope someone here can really guide me to someone(lawyers or advisers/counsellors).

Many thanks to all who are willing to help.
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Re: Need help urgently ...

If you have monetary problems, approach legal aid bureau ... they will see whether you qualify for aid .... and regarding your case, we really cant help you as there are a lot of background issues to take into consideration .... I am not familiar with divorce lawyers, maybe some bros here who are 'experienced' can recommend such lawyers to you
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Re: Need help urgently ...

Sigh ... I have tried so many times searching online for legal help or family coursellor on divorse ... but I did not get much result that I need. Mostly are counsellors for couple who are going to get divorsed...

But I just cannot find any counsellor for people who had divorsed and having a hard time adjusting to their life. For me, I had a hard time because I really do want to start a new life, however that idiot ex-wife keep coming to pester me with her new husband to take my son away. I am constantly living in fear that they(my ex-wife and her new husband) are going to file for full custody for my real son. Really, really having a big stone on top of my heart.

I want to fight, I want to fight for my rights. However, I am lost. I need someone(a counsellor or a family lawyer who can really guide me on the right direction) ...

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Re: Need help urgently ...

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Hi bros,
I need help urgently in terms of legal and advisers/counsellors.
Check out this thread, http://sbf.rocks/adult-d...r-divorce.html & the sticky, http://sbf.rocks/adult-d...er-sg-law.html, bro xity76.

You may be able to find the answers in these 2 threads.

Wishing you all the best.
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Old 07-04-2008, 11:16 AM
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Re: Need help urgently ...

bro, why not you talk to a lawyer, which might be able to give you the right advise. also, they might be able to tell you the possibility of winning. but, of coz .. there will be some $$$ involved la. (how much i really don't know la).

at lease.. you know what can be done, what to be done.. and how can it be done.
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Re: Need help urgently ...

Sorry to hear this.

If you're already divorced, the guardianship would have been finalized during the proceedings. If your ex-wife and her new husband comes to harrass you, don't panic, don't turn violent, just call the cops.

If you are in the midst of the divorce, and need legal help, try Legal Aid if you are tight on money, otherwise can just look for any reputable law firm online. If you're holding on to a stable job, and your child is willing to stay with you, there's always a fighting chance. Better if you can prove neglect.

Having said this, do think about the child's feelings, quite painful to have be caught in the middle. Sometimes, an amicable settlement might be the best for the child.
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Re: Need help urgently ...

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The garmen got this legal department, there they will give you suggestion on what can be done and whether they can help you. So... check with the garmen first.

As for the one that don't belong to you... simple.. all you need to prove in court that the child got no blood link with you and you are not responsible for that child if i remember correctly.
Can I ask what is garmen ? Are you referring to government ?

I am sorry to ask, but I am really lost in finding help .... where can I seek help from this legal department ? Any contacts ... or leads that you can tell me so that I can go there. I am really sorry for asking all of you here and afraid that you all will blame me for not being able to do it myself. I have to ask for all of you to pardon me because I really need help in seeking professional help.

If anyone of you have contact for marriage councellors or family councellors, I would be much indebt to you.

I am also thinking of going to my Town Council MP for help. Do you think they will have councellors there to help me? Any advise on this before I head to the MP?

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Re: Need help urgently ...

[QUOTE=xityc76;2686349]Hi bros,

I need help urgently in terms of legal and advisers/counsellors.

Bro,

There is a place call Community Legal clinic is open four night a week and serve as a first contact point for people wondering whether a dispute or grievance they have could stand up to scrutiny in court.

This is set up to help more on poor and mid class people gain access to justice.

PM if you may want to try this..


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Re: Need help urgently ...

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Hi bros,

I need help urgently in terms of legal and advisers/counsellors.

You see, I have divorsed with my ex-wife and we agreed to settle for a joint custody of both our kids. However, I know one of them is not mine and the other is mine. I want to remove the name of the one who do not belong to me and also I need to fight for full custody of my real son.

I am really desperate for help and have been searching for aids, but couldn't find any. If any bros here can help me please. I am here not to seek sex related stuffs, but instead because one of my friend told me about this site and the great people here with vast experiences.

I do hope someone here can really guide me to someone(lawyers or advisers/counsellors).

Many thanks to all who are willing to help.
xityc
There are actually thousands & one questions not answered in your post so quite difficult for us to diagnose or suggest any solutions

First of all how was the inital agreement on the joint custody reached?? Just verbal with no lawyers intervening?? Take note verbal agreement is legally recognised but of cos you must have the required witnesses/evidences to back it up.

Joint custody will means various methods to share responsibilities for both sons and now you intend to fight for sole custody?? Or your preference of shared custody is that she takes care of 1 (not your biological son) and you take care of the other (your biological son)? Still possible but again subject to the court's discretion as "to the best interest of the children". You will have a higher chance of succeeding if you are gainfully employed and your wife is not.

The best person to advise you is still a trained lawyer specialising in divorce cases & settlements, if you truly want to save $$ & shorten the divorce proceedings including ancilliaries (e.g. custody, maintenance, distribution of assets...etc) than try to reach an amicable agreement with your wife before the actual hearing.

Try the legal aid bureau if your monthly income does not exceeds their set amount (previously I know was $1500 but I do not know if there is any changes now). The free community clinic only dispenses advice and will not be able to represent you in court, moreover the volunteers there may not be a family lawyer, so just take note.

Hope this helps................& take care, we all go thru shit some point in our lives.

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Re: Need help urgently ...

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Thank you from my bottom of my heart to all who offer their help.[/QUOTE]

Already PM to you the contact, good luck to you bro.

Please note I got nothing or any relationship with the co.

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Re: Need help urgently ...

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Hi bros,

I need help urgently in terms of legal and advisers/counsellors.

I do hope someone here can really guide me to someone(lawyers or advisers/counsellors).

Many thanks to all who are willing to help.
xityc
Bro, I hope the Community Legal Clinics will be able to help you get started. Please see:

The Law Society of Singapore - Pro Bono Services

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Re: Need help urgently ...

i wish you good luck.
I will help you look around for any lawyers specialised in such cases.

its the minimal i can do.
but do your part for taking care of the children
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Re: Need help urgently ...

Seriously, have you tried talking??

Call your ex-wife and meet up with her and talk it out nicely... tell her to calm down and talk it out calmly for the sake for the children... Remind her that you two once had a relationship and have had good times together.... and for the sake of the child (she doesn't want the child not to have a father right?) let you have custody of the child and she take the one whom she had with someone else...

Promise her that you'll allow access 2-3 days a week and how you want to facilitate that (sending the child to her place etc etc).... Many couples have too much hatred for one another and remind her its for the good of the child and you keep your differences aside, after all, you're gonna get divorced, no need to fight anymore right?

You may want to provide more info as well, the child whom is not yours, did you discover that after marriage whenthe child is born or when you married her is the child already with her?
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Yes agree with Vorenus.

TALK with her nicely first.
BREAKING UP is not always the best option.
MAKING UP is.

think of your child's future...if that is the ultimate concern
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