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Old 11-02-2023, 12:31 AM
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Take care, you need to restart and reflect.
I'm pretty sure you will eventually come back to this, not because of temptation but because of realization about how short life is.
We are all lustful beings after all, just all about how much you can tahan vs how far you willing to experiment. Goodluck.
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[Part 2]

Once the deed was done, all I could think about was how low I had fallen. From a once innocent young boy to a sex addict rawing a FL. This addiction had consumed me and degenerated my mind. As I reflected on my life, I realised that this lifestyle is just a dark pit of destruction and emptiness. Once you start its FUCKING hard to stop. You just keep wanting to find new thrills. It never fucking ends. Eventually one day you realise you have become a completely different person.

But this is where the miracle of my life truly happened. As I was walking out of the place feeling depressed and disgusted with myself, I suddenly had the urge to go to a nearby church. As fate would have had it, there was mass service happening at that hour. Before that however, the priest was giving confessionals. For those who dont know, basically you confess to a priest of your sins behind closed doors and he is bounded by an oath to never tell anyone, no matter how illegal or wrong it is. Wah I tell you , that shit was next level therapy. Keeping this addiction a secret and living a double life is tiring as fuck. Those of you in this forum with girlfriends and wives will understand what i mean. If you're thinking of bringing this secret to your grave, you can do what I did, even if you're an atheist. Trust me, it will take the weight off your shoulders and make you feel less guilty. And its free too, so you can skip the therapy, lol.

Anyways, service began and I managed to take holy communion. Basically this means confessing our sins to God, and wanting to repent. But this is where the magic happened. You see, over the past 8 months I NEVER wanted to quit. I enjoyed the fuck out of it, like a kid in a candystore. There was no guilt or remorse, I was completely desensitized to it. I was just a fucking addict chasing after the next thrill. Thats what this addiction does, you dont even realise what youre doing is fucked up or wrong. The high simply hijacks your brain and you cant think rationally. But for the very first time in 8 months, i wanted out. I wanted to get the fuck out of this lifestyle and run as far as possible. It was like being blind your whole life and suddenly being able to open your eyes. I realised that this addiction had consumed me and led me on a dark path. All the time,money and energy wasted on vice which added no value to my life. All the fucking lies and excuses I made to my family about where I was, when in fact I was bonking a FL. This was all just escapism from reality, cheap pleasure which does not satisfy and give 0 happiness.

And let me tell you something, this vice does indeed dehumanise you. I can say this from my first hand experience. This shit corrupts the soul and mind 100%. You start to see women as sex objects and only think about your own sexual pleasure. Why do you keep seeing samsters on the news for upskirts, sex crimes, etc? Because i tell you the truth, their mind and soul kena corrupted like fuck liao. Till the point they dont even realise that what they're doing is wrong. Thats how dark this lifestyle is.

So what exactly is the point of me sharing my story? Firstly, to inspire others in the forum and warn newbies who are new to this thinking that its "cheap fun". No its not cheap at all. The price you pay for is your own soul. This shit corrupts the fuck out of you. Im not being a religious zealot preaching from a moral high ground. I've been through this bullshit first-hand. And once you start its FUCKING hard to stop. Secondly, I want to write my story here so I can revisit this post whenever i have the urge to go back to my old ways. Not gonna lie, the temptation is strong as fuck. After i went home I keep having the urge to revist the FL and creampie her raw. Even went to book with okt, but managed to wank 2 times in a row and had the clarity to cancel. Thats how strong this addiction is. And if I ever relapse, I will probably be seeking professional help. Probably more worth it than paying $150 to bang a third-world villager lol.

To the attached/married guys reading this, ask yourself this, do you want to constantly live with the guilt of a double life? To break your matrimonial vows? To destroy the intimacy you have with your wife? Disappoint your kids by letting them know daddy is paying money to fuck a hooker? Or worse still, spread stds to your wife?

To the single guys reading this, do you want to waste time, energy and money on this meaningless vice? Or spend your resources wisely to build your life and become successful? Do you want std scares? By the way now DSC wait time is 3 mths, so you need to visit private like I did, which is expensive as fuck. Do you want to fall down this rabbit hole like I did and end up with regrets? Live with the shame of visiting hookers for the rest of your life?

By the way guys, im not preaching from a moral high ground, feel free to disagree with me. Im just sharing my own personal experiences. But I must admit, it feels FUCKING GOOD to be free from this addiction. Finally wake up my fucking idea. This must be how all those guys who kena KC or gong-taoed by siambus must feel after wanking and having post-nut clarity lol.

I know this healing journey will be difficult as fuck, but i will persevere. I know some of yall will read this and slam me. Perhaps say things like "Dont step religious","there's nothing wrong with this lifestyle", etc. But let me just say this. Don't ever try to glorify this lifestyle. It's fucking disgusting. Because throughout all cultures, across all religions, and through the span of human history, this has always been a vice. And I know that history is on my side.

Signing out,

Regretfulman, a man full of regrets

I believe bro will come back again

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It’s easy for some but not so for everyone unfortunately.
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i'm surprised the FL allows u to raw so easily
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Re: My last day here- This is my story. AMA

Take out the stress then u can quit la. Unfortunately stress finds you no matter what.... then ya either u wank it out or go back to ur old habit
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Re: My last day here- This is my story. AMA

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[Part 2]

Once the deed was done, all I could think about was how low I had fallen. From a once innocent young boy to a sex addict rawing a FL. This addiction had consumed me and degenerated my mind. As I reflected on my life, I realised that this lifestyle is just a dark pit of destruction and emptiness. Once you start its FUCKING hard to stop. You just keep wanting to find new thrills. It never fucking ends. Eventually one day you realise you have become a completely different person.

But this is where the miracle of my life truly happened. As I was walking out of the place feeling depressed and disgusted with myself, I suddenly had the urge to go to a nearby church. As fate would have had it, there was mass service happening at that hour. Before that however, the priest was giving confessionals. For those who dont know, basically you confess to a priest of your sins behind closed doors and he is bounded by an oath to never tell anyone, no matter how illegal or wrong it is. Wah I tell you , that shit was next level therapy. Keeping this addiction a secret and living a double life is tiring as fuck. Those of you in this forum with girlfriends and wives will understand what i mean. If you're thinking of bringing this secret to your grave, you can do what I did, even if you're an atheist. Trust me, it will take the weight off your shoulders and make you feel less guilty. And its free too, so you can skip the therapy, lol.

Anyways, service began and I managed to take holy communion. Basically this means confessing our sins to God, and wanting to repent. But this is where the magic happened. You see, over the past 8 months I NEVER wanted to quit. I enjoyed the fuck out of it, like a kid in a candystore. There was no guilt or remorse, I was completely desensitized to it. I was just a fucking addict chasing after the next thrill. Thats what this addiction does, you dont even realise what youre doing is fucked up or wrong. The high simply hijacks your brain and you cant think rationally. But for the very first time in 8 months, i wanted out. I wanted to get the fuck out of this lifestyle and run as far as possible. It was like being blind your whole life and suddenly being able to open your eyes. I realised that this addiction had consumed me and led me on a dark path. All the time,money and energy wasted on vice which added no value to my life. All the fucking lies and excuses I made to my family about where I was, when in fact I was bonking a FL. This was all just escapism from reality, cheap pleasure which does not satisfy and give 0 happiness.

And let me tell you something, this vice does indeed dehumanise you. I can say this from my first hand experience. This shit corrupts the soul and mind 100%. You start to see women as sex objects and only think about your own sexual pleasure. Why do you keep seeing samsters on the news for upskirts, sex crimes, etc? Because i tell you the truth, their mind and soul kena corrupted like fuck liao. Till the point they dont even realise that what they're doing is wrong. Thats how dark this lifestyle is.

So what exactly is the point of me sharing my story? Firstly, to inspire others in the forum and warn newbies who are new to this thinking that its "cheap fun". No its not cheap at all. The price you pay for is your own soul. This shit corrupts the fuck out of you. Im not being a religious zealot preaching from a moral high ground. I've been through this bullshit first-hand. And once you start its FUCKING hard to stop. Secondly, I want to write my story here so I can revisit this post whenever i have the urge to go back to my old ways. Not gonna lie, the temptation is strong as fuck. After i went home I keep having the urge to revist the FL and creampie her raw. Even went to book with okt, but managed to wank 2 times in a row and had the clarity to cancel. Thats how strong this addiction is. And if I ever relapse, I will probably be seeking professional help. Probably more worth it than paying $150 to bang a third-world villager lol.

To the attached/married guys reading this, ask yourself this, do you want to constantly live with the guilt of a double life? To break your matrimonial vows? To destroy the intimacy you have with your wife? Disappoint your kids by letting them know daddy is paying money to fuck a hooker? Or worse still, spread stds to your wife?

To the single guys reading this, do you want to waste time, energy and money on this meaningless vice? Or spend your resources wisely to build your life and become successful? Do you want std scares? By the way now DSC wait time is 3 mths, so you need to visit private like I did, which is expensive as fuck. Do you want to fall down this rabbit hole like I did and end up with regrets? Live with the shame of visiting hookers for the rest of your life?

By the way guys, im not preaching from a moral high ground, feel free to disagree with me. Im just sharing my own personal experiences. But I must admit, it feels FUCKING GOOD to be free from this addiction. Finally wake up my fucking idea. This must be how all those guys who kena KC or gong-taoed by siambus must feel after wanking and having post-nut clarity lol.

I know this healing journey will be difficult as fuck, but i will persevere. I know some of yall will read this and slam me. Perhaps say things like "Dont step religious","there's nothing wrong with this lifestyle", etc. But let me just say this. Don't ever try to glorify this lifestyle. It's fucking disgusting. Because throughout all cultures, across all religions, and through the span of human history, this has always been a vice. And I know that history is on my side.

Signing out,

Regretfulman, a man full of regrets
didnt bother to read finish but quite sure you got addiction problem. Seek help ba.

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at 24, I would say I am old enough to be your father, and many other senior bros here have gone through this stage many years ago.

The problem with life is we always think we are right at whatever stage of life, and more so when you think you are educated, and it starts with Sec, JC, Uni etc...
We think we know something, have answers to life and figured it all out. Truth be told, no one figures it out, we just learn as we grow older, and hopefully we make right choices.

As a undergrad, been there, finished that 20 over years ago. Along the way, picked up other qualifications, degrees.
Did I feel I knew something enough to educate others? Yeah, its just the ego talking.

You probably are not married, don't have children, don't have old parents to take care of, fighting beside them beside their beds in ICU. Have not gone through the trials of marriage, and the issues of your wife not caring about you, not giving sex, cheating with office husbands, kids turning rebellious, the list goes on and on. Honestly, if I may say, you are still wet behind the ears in life experience, and I don't mean it in a derogatory sense, I am just factually stating, you have not been tested through the fires of life as many other older than you do. So while I can understand your various statements, I would say, you might change your strong opinions later, as life beats at you with the sledgehammer it brings.

I never put religion into the picture, because no one figures out religion, not even those who claim to preach it. And there are many who will not agree with another even though they are supposedly expounding on the same text. The reason is, as I alluded to, its all a reference point, and different backgrounds, character, experiences will all be different even though its the same material. As times go by, people change, and so does what they preach as well. They become "wiser" and gain wisdom

The point is, nothing is cast in stone. Life is unpredictable, and what we think is a destination is but a point of reference. I am sure, at some point you will think differently from what you wrote today, as we all will looking back.
The only way to know if something was done right, or wrong, is often retrospective, looking back.

Finally, I will conclude, enjoy the ride. the words of William Shakespeare, love many, trust few, do wrong to no one.
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No bro, confession is only available in catholic churches
i thought you said you confessed to a priest?? That gives the impression you're catholic
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Yes im a christian who visited a catholic church. Because no christian churches ars open on weekday afternoons
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at 24, I would say I am old enough to be your father, and many other senior bros here have gone through this stage many years ago.

The problem with life is we always think we are right at whatever stage of life, and more so when you think you are educated, and it starts with Sec, JC, Uni etc...
We think we know something, have answers to life and figured it all out. Truth be told, no one figures it out, we just learn as we grow older, and hopefully we make right choices.

As a undergrad, been there, finished that 20 over years ago. Along the way, picked up other qualifications, degrees.
Did I feel I knew something enough to educate others? Yeah, its just the ego talking.

You probably are not married, don't have children, don't have old parents to take care of, fighting beside them beside their beds in ICU. Have not gone through the trials of marriage, and the issues of your wife not caring about you, not giving sex, cheating with office husbands, kids turning rebellious, the list goes on and on. Honestly, if I may say, you are still wet behind the ears in life experience, and I don't mean it in a derogatory sense, I am just factually stating, you have not been tested through the fires of life as many other older than you do. So while I can understand your various statements, I would say, you might change your strong opinions later, as life beats at you with the sledgehammer it brings.

I never put religion into the picture, because no one figures out religion, not even those who claim to preach it. And there are many who will not agree with another even though they are supposedly expounding on the same text. The reason is, as I alluded to, its all a reference point, and different backgrounds, character, experiences will all be different even though its the same material. As times go by, people change, and so does what they preach as well. They become "wiser" and gain wisdom

The point is, nothing is cast in stone. Life is unpredictable, and what we think is a destination is but a point of reference. I am sure, at some point you will think differently from what you wrote today, as we all will looking back.
The only way to know if something was done right, or wrong, is often retrospective, looking back.

Finally, I will conclude, enjoy the ride. the words of William Shakespeare, love many, trust few, do wrong to no one.
very true words. i myself end up in an very unexpected situation as compared to what was envisioned in the past when i was still young. life's encounters really can change you as a person, affect your decision making and alter the path you take in life.
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at 24, I would say I am old enough to be your father, and many other senior bros here have gone through this stage many years ago.

The problem with life is we always think we are right at whatever stage of life, and more so when you think you are educated, and it starts with Sec, JC, Uni etc...
We think we know something, have answers to life and figured it all out. Truth be told, no one figures it out, we just learn as we grow older, and hopefully we make right choices.

As a undergrad, been there, finished that 20 over years ago. Along the way, picked up other qualifications, degrees.
Did I feel I knew something enough to educate others? Yeah, its just the ego talking.

You probably are not married, don't have children, don't have old parents to take care of, fighting beside them beside their beds in ICU. Have not gone through the trials of marriage, and the issues of your wife not caring about you, not giving sex, cheating with office husbands, kids turning rebellious, the list goes on and on. Honestly, if I may say, you are still wet behind the ears in life experience, and I don't mean it in a derogatory sense, I am just factually stating, you have not been tested through the fires of life as many other older than you do. So while I can understand your various statements, I would say, you might change your strong opinions later, as life beats at you with the sledgehammer it brings.

I never put religion into the picture, because no one figures out religion, not even those who claim to preach it. And there are many who will not agree with another even though they are supposedly expounding on the same text. The reason is, as I alluded to, its all a reference point, and different backgrounds, character, experiences will all be different even though its the same material. As times go by, people change, and so does what they preach as well. They become "wiser" and gain wisdom

The point is, nothing is cast in stone. Life is unpredictable, and what we think is a destination is but a point of reference. I am sure, at some point you will think differently from what you wrote today, as we all will looking back.
The only way to know if something was done right, or wrong, is often retrospective, looking back.

Finally, I will conclude, enjoy the ride. the words of William Shakespeare, love many, trust few, do wrong to no one.


Well said, I do agree with Shadow Warrior Bro.

There is still a lot of hardships in life you have not reach yet, that is why the sudden detox coming in like as in the light gave you a reason to move on and be a regretful man.

Just stay strong and live with whatever decision you have made bah, lots of samsters here still love their family / wife / kids but just chiong because we still being humans with urge and temptations.

Some even say, when you get older and start dealing with health issues, you won't even have the time to think about the basic HJ or FJ that can be bought with the money you worked so hard for. Scary but true.
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yes. life is about decisions. i believe in one thing. decisions made can be a blessing or a lesson. either way live without regrets!
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at 24, I would say I am old enough to be your father, and many other senior bros here have gone through this stage many years ago.

The problem with life is we always think we are right at whatever stage of life, and more so when you think you are educated, and it starts with Sec, JC, Uni etc...
We think we know something, have answers to life and figured it all out. Truth be told, no one figures it out, we just learn as we grow older, and hopefully we make right choices.

As a undergrad, been there, finished that 20 over years ago. Along the way, picked up other qualifications, degrees.
Did I feel I knew something enough to educate others? Yeah, its just the ego talking.

You probably are not married, don't have children, don't have old parents to take care of, fighting beside them beside their beds in ICU. Have not gone through the trials of marriage, and the issues of your wife not caring about you, not giving sex, cheating with office husbands, kids turning rebellious, the list goes on and on. Honestly, if I may say, you are still wet behind the ears in life experience, and I don't mean it in a derogatory sense, I am just factually stating, you have not been tested through the fires of life as many other older than you do. So while I can understand your various statements, I would say, you might change your strong opinions later, as life beats at you with the sledgehammer it brings.

I never put religion into the picture, because no one figures out religion, not even those who claim to preach it. And there are many who will not agree with another even though they are supposedly expounding on the same text. The reason is, as I alluded to, its all a reference point, and different backgrounds, character, experiences will all be different even though its the same material. As times go by, people change, and so does what they preach as well. They become "wiser" and gain wisdom

The point is, nothing is cast in stone. Life is unpredictable, and what we think is a destination is but a point of reference. I am sure, at some point you will think differently from what you wrote today, as we all will looking back.
The only way to know if something was done right, or wrong, is often retrospective, looking back.

Finally, I will conclude, enjoy the ride. the words of William Shakespeare, love many, trust few, do wrong to no one.
So true bro. Totally agree with what u said.
To TS, I've been through what u been through, except that I've been through drinking sessions at Siam dius, ktvs, HFJs etc. So my expenditure is 3 times of yours. I've even been in 5 figure debts and gotten out of it with friend's help. But within a few months, I sunk into it again. And accumulated another 5 figure debt. But managed to get out of it again. Now I'm a middle aged man, happily married with a kid coming my way. I was clean for a few years and restricted myself to go for ktv sessions but not to sit with any girls. This escalated to, just sit with the girls, not considered cheating. Then it escalated to visiting MP with just HJ, not considered cheating cos just hand only ma. I haven't reached the point of FJ or BJ cos then it's really cheating on my lovely wife. But I cannot promise that I won't do that.
So my point being, don't commit yourself too early by saying "you've totally quit this vice" because a leopard never change its spots. It's still early to declare this, but I wish u the best of luck.
And I totally understand the "post-nut clarity" or I'd rather call it "post-fuck regrets"
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Re: My last day here- This is my story. AMA

Religion can cause people to feel more guilty for such things even though visiting FLs is legal in SG. Been on this path before and felt that the guilt weighed me down and the services offered by religion like prayer, reading those daily bread books weren't helpful for me. Religion has in many ways been a channel to obtain support but can be overly persecutive and sometimes don't have practical science-based advice. Some more practical-minded people I've met just treat religion as a casual hobby, don't have to hardcore or be all devout about it. imo, abrahamic and monotheistic (single god) religions are sometimes unhelpfully hardcore about certain aspects of human preferences that are due to mother nature (aka evolution).

From secular point of view, sex addiction is a thing. Having had experience with counselling and therapy (i didn't for sex related stuff), rest assured that "religious confessional = therapy" is false. One practice hasn't been updated in the last 2000+ years and the other is science-based and constantly improving as humanity discovers more about itself which I think is more practical than unrequited prayers.

You mentioned you're taking supplements that you say enhances sperm production. Does enhancing productivity mean that you'll be more horny and need more frequent release? Does not help people want to decrease the frequency of visiting the services marketed on SBF.

The whole raw-ing thing is a constant topic of discussion even on SBF. Personally I'm conservative here and never ever went raw even when I'm in a horny state of mind. You might have a heavier risk appetite and greater impulsivity than you personally prefer (esp. during post-nut clarity). Certain conditions can lead to this, e.g., adhd.
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Re: My last day here- This is my story. AMA

wah you still here ah

providing the link to his original rant for bros to reference....

my 2cents....don't bother with this guy

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