Advice needed

hi...dear bros
just need to seek advice
i have a BJ with condom on throughout..After the BJ, the gal actually said she got ulcer(wtf).
just a question:wats the risk of catching anything from cases like this

Generally it's considered safe to use a condom. Good thing is, you used one, bad thing is, you are worried. So the best thing to do, don't have sexual relationship with strangers. Wait for about 03 months before you go for a blood test. It will take about 02-03 working days for the result. You can go to any neighbourhood clinic for the blood test. Till then, refrain from sex. Once you are cleared, remember to wear the helmet, get yourself a decent girl and stay faithful. You only live ONCE.

[nickwch]

Originally Posted by fixall

Generally it's considered safe to use a condom. Good thing is, you used one, bad thing is, you are worried. So the best thing to do, don't have sexual relationship with strangers. Wait for about 03 months before you go for a blood test. It will take about 02-03 working days for the result. You can go to any neighbourhood clinic for the blood test. Till then, refrain from sex. Once you are cleared, remember to wear the helmet, get yourself a decent girl and stay faithful. You only live ONCE.

I dun think u need to wait for three mths..that is for HIV...so far...no cases of HIV transmission via BJ...so this u shd not worry...only need to worry of STD...in my opinion...the risk is on herpes..cos dunno its ulcer or sore..

[yojimbo]

its quite difficult to contract any STD if u wear helmet and the girl gave you a bj.

the only things that helmet can't protect for sure is pubic lice, which is rare to start with

1)03 Months for HIV testing is most accurate. However 03 weeks after sexual contact is sufficient to go for one.
2)02 - 20 days for signs of herpes if you were lucky. Most people won't show signs or know they have it.
3)Well if he's that worried, might as well wait for 03 months to do a complete blood test to be sure he's cleared. That will really put him at peace.
4)HIV transmission via oral is relatively small but possible. No one can be sure.
5)You only live ONCE.

[shawnie]

dont worry bro u r fine.

[unicornboy]

Originally Posted by nickwch

..that is for HIV...so far...no cases of HIV transmission via BJ...so this u shd not worry..

Bro, to my understanding so long the WL is HIV positive and having a mouth ulcer while performing BJ, the chances of spreading the disease to her sex partner is high! Correct me if I am wrong...but dont flame me hoh.....

[nickwch]

Originally Posted by unicornboy

Bro, to my understanding so long the WL is HIV positive and having a mouth ulcer while performing BJ, the chances of spreading the disease to her sex partner is high! Correct me if I am wrong...but dont flame me hoh.....

hmm...thats not what I have read loh...won;t flame lah..we r brothers mah..all juz come n share knowledge...

[Big Sexy]

risk is there but very low, btw you didnt tell us whether the girl is a wl frm gl or fl? if it is FL ......the risk is higher than those girl in gl ( house with permit one). streetwalker dont count...

Originally Posted by DoneDeal

hi...dear bros
just need to seek advice
i have a BJ with condom on throughout..After the BJ, the gal actually said she got ulcer(wtf).
just a question:wats the risk of catching anything from cases like this

[Big Sexy]

sorry to inform you that you have been misguide... there are rare cases of ppl getting HIV from BJ though chances are very very low...
agree with the herpes statement

Originally Posted by nickwch

..so far...no cases of HIV transmission via BJ...so this u shd not worry...only need to worry of STD...in my opinion...the risk is on herpes..cos dunno its ulcer or sore..

[Big Sexy]

you wont get lice from BJ... .for those who do not know what lice is...

Crabs (pubic lice) are small, light brown, flat insects that cling to the pubic hairs, suck blood for nourishment, and fix their eggs (nits) to the pubic hairs. The blood sucking may cause little red sores and itching. Crab lice are almost always spread by close physical contact. They prefer pubic hair and do not voluntarily leave the body..

Originally Posted by yojimbo

its quite difficult to contract any STD if u wear helmet and the girl gave you a bj.

the only things that helmet can't protect for sure is pubic lice, which is rare to start with

[Big Sexy]

the chance of getting HIV from a BJ even though the gal is HIV is low...unless the receiver and the performer both have got ulcer or broken skin/tissue in the mouth..

Originally Posted by unicornboy

Bro, to my understanding so long the WL is HIV positive and having a mouth ulcer while performing BJ, the chances of spreading the disease to her sex partner is high! Correct me if I am wrong...but dont flame me hoh.....

[unicornboy]

Originally Posted by Big Sexy

the chance of getting HIV from a BJ even though the gal is HIV is low...unless the receiver and the performer both have got ulcer or broken skin/tissue in the mouth..

How about this scenario....WL, a HIV carrier, having mouth ulcer, performing bbbj (raw) on the male and hes not putting on condom. How now? Whats the chances of the male getting HIV/AIDS? High risks?

[Sword]

Originally Posted by unicornboy

How about this scenario....WL, a HIV carrier, having mouth ulcer, performing bbbj (raw) on the male and hes not putting on condom. How now? Whats the chances of the male getting HIV/AIDS? High risks?

Err.....I think there is a certain risk of possible transmission in this case. Pls correct me if I am wrong.

Go for a check-up whenever in doubts........always wear a cap!

Thanks......

thanks for all the advice n im so sorry that i have taken so long to reply..all u bros have been helpful...
btw..its a WL from a HC..
just to add..she gave me a AR as well..