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Old 19-12-2021, 10:41 AM
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Re: Why do you all cheat?

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Why not? Many FL offer 2/3hr rates.. paying a sugarbaby also draws a clean line and is considered commercial to me. When you cheat with someone u know from real life, that’s playing with fire and u need to be real careful.. a risk I’m not willing to take
Totally agreed . Save the time & also minus the all troubles . Afterall , nothing is free . If you thought sex offered is free then mostly you're wrong . Still need to pay for dinner , drinks , entertainment..... ect & also time consuming last but not lest still not sure you get serviced or you need to service her . Most important , no ties attached / no emotion attachment .
Wives can be forgiving if husband's are caught whore mongering but caught with a mistress that is a whole lot of difference .
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Old 19-12-2021, 02:40 PM
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Personally my wife dun enjoy sex. I still love her very much but I dun like to force n i enjoy long like 2hr plus of hours of teasing n playtime. I also need my partner to enjoy the moment so I will feel good and get very turn on. I only go for commercial sex because cheating can probably result in things getting messy esp if the lady is single. To me cheating emotionally and physically is different..
agreed. staying married and staying sexually active in a marriage are totally different things

I do the same. Just pay and settle your needs outside. No need for emotional blackmailing
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Old 20-12-2021, 02:45 AM
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Re: Why do you all cheat?

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Personally my wife dun enjoy sex. I still love her very much but I dun like to force n i enjoy long like 2hr plus of hours of teasing n playtime. I also need my partner to enjoy the moment so I will feel good and get very turn on. I only go for commercial sex because cheating can probably result in things getting messy esp if the lady is single. To me cheating emotionally and physically is different..
Same issue here. Wife hates sex, but that's the only biggest challenge in our relationship. Everything else is good. And me being young and stupid, wanted to save first time for marriage, so was completely blindsided. Rather than cheat with someone I know, commercial is the best option to keep everyone happy
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Old 20-12-2021, 03:16 PM
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Personally my wife dun enjoy sex. I still love her very much but I dun like to force n i enjoy long like 2hr plus of hours of teasing n playtime. I also need my partner to enjoy the moment so I will feel good and get very turn on. I only go for commercial sex because cheating can probably result in things getting messy esp if the lady is single. To me cheating emotionally and physically is different..
You may think there is a distinction between cheating emotionally and physically. However, to your wife and her family, it is very much the same thing. If she/they find out, they will feel that you cheated. The only upside to this is there is no third party to hurt.
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Re: Why do you all cheat?

How about when women cheat as well?

You never know what happen to a lonely housewife when someone young or sweet talker pop in the picture.

So husband close both eye and cheat together?
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Old 24-12-2021, 02:25 AM
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Re: Why do you all cheat?

Exactly. Women can cheat too. I don’t think an ordinary man can tolerate the humiliation of wearing green hat. If want to marry, best to find decent looking gal, fuck her only and keep her happy so she less likely to cheat. If it develops into a sexless marriage, she may find someone else to give her the satisfaction. This is my outsider view as an unmarried man. I can imagine it’s not easy to keep up the sparks in a marriage.

We are living in a world where faith, loyalty and moral values is a rare commodity. See the news so many celebs cheating on their wife or husband, people getting divorced like without thinking...
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Old 24-12-2021, 02:31 AM
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Re: Why do you all cheat?

Pls don’t zap me, I just want to see more happy families in Singapore. Hopefully we can reverse the divorce trend
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How about when women cheat as well?

You never know what happen to a lonely housewife when someone young or sweet talker pop in the picture.

So husband close both eye and cheat together?
Never maintain a marriage this way.
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Pls don’t zap me, I just want to see more happy families in Singapore. Hopefully we can reverse the divorce trend
You are like decades late. The fertility rate is going down the drain since 1970s and divorce rate is going uphill since the 1990s

Love your optimism, but the trend is going to continue. Numbers are facts and they speak the truth. Gonna talk about (some) factors which people usually choose to ignore or ignorant about it.

We are going extinct as we speak at this moment. Maintenance fertility is 2.1. Ours are way below that since early 1980s onwards. My projection, in 70-80 yrs time. For every 10 Singaporeans born at that period, least 8 will have both parents that are foreign born.

1) Uptake of tertiary education for women (This has correlation for women in delaying marriage, initiating divorce or choose to be single)
2) Feminism (Female > Male, not Female ==Male.)
3) Astronomical rising in cost of living (You can thank PAP for that)
4) Suppression of wages, esp mid or lower income (You can thank PAP for that)



FERTILITY RATE
https://www.macrotrends.net/countrie...fertility-rate


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You are like decades late. The fertility rate is going down the drain since 1970s and divorce rate is going uphill since the 1990s

Love your optimism, but the trend is going to continue. Numbers are facts and they speak the truth. Gonna talk about (some) factors which people usually choose to ignore or ignorant about it.
the topic is why do you all cheat? Lol... relevant info mate...relevant info...
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agreed. staying married and staying sexually active in a marriage are totally different things

I do the same. Just pay and settle your needs outside. No need for emotional blackmailing
There’s a fixed truth in all of life. Free isn’t free and free comes with a lot of costs. If you’re not paying it. It’s already incorporated in the upfront FOC charges. In the case of Sex. Paying is the cheapest option Free no matter how you may like to view it….IS NEVER CHEAP
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the topic is why do you all cheat? Lol... relevant info mate...relevant info...
I am only replying to user peacekeeping, not the topic. Read the quote again. If you looking for trouble go else where. Time for you to grow up.
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Exactly. Women can cheat too. I don’t think an ordinary man can tolerate the humiliation of wearing green hat. If want to marry, best to find decent looking gal, fuck her only and keep her happy so she less likely to cheat. If it develops into a sexless marriage, she may find someone else to give her the satisfaction. This is my outsider view as an unmarried man. I can imagine it’s not easy to keep up the sparks in a marriage.

We are living in a world where faith, loyalty and moral values is a rare commodity. See the news so many celebs cheating on their wife or husband, people getting divorced like without thinking...
Unless you want to have legitimate children. Modern marriage no longer benefits men. The environment in SG does not foster happy marriages.
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the topic is why do you all cheat? Lol... relevant info mate...relevant info...
It's very relevant. Except for you.
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Unless you want to have legitimate children. Modern marriage no longer benefits men. The environment in SG does not foster happy marriages.
There are happy families around or at least both parties try hard to keep their marriage. Children is important factor. Without children it’s hard to have a complete marriage. But even then it’s still possible if both parties can maintain the thirst for each other. In other words, you are screwed if one day your wife don’t feel like bedding you anymore.
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