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Old 04-12-2022, 03:20 PM
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Re: Married but longing the life of a Bachelor

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Feeling a little depressed recently. I am married and with kids but this forum taught me that I could invent many possibilities by being single. I feel that I will be happier and Free to enjoy myself much more if I am single. Does anyone feel the same?
better you settle your urges outside and go home be a good husband and father. best of both worlds
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To be fair, a large number of men are perfectly able to keep their activities with ladies of the night completely segregated from their other activities, and perform perfectly well as good husbands and fathers with no great temptation to throw everything away for these ladies.

When men start doing that, it is because of a dissatisfaction far greater than sex with their wives, or the lack thereof.

This whole ‘falling in love’, especially with the professionals is merely an escapism born of a very deep unhappiness with their lives.

Put it this way: one would be hard pressed to find a man who is happy with his kids, his careers, his sense of self worth but whose wife doesn’t provide ‘adequate’ sex saying ‘I’m going to give everything up for sex’.
You make some fair points.

Just two points, that I want to emphasize.

Men's sex drives vary widely. I'm one of those guys who generally need a release everyday..sometimes more than once a day and I'm nearly 50. Lack of sex is deadly, for someone like me. Yes I have many friends who are quite all right with sex once a week. To me, that is unacceptable.

Secondly, men will very easily fall in lobe when they always have sex with the same woman. That's my point behind not fucking the same woman twice, if TS decides to go overseas. Once emotions get into the picture then the man's view of his life situation will also change. Perhaps the guys you know all have great self control, but I frequently see a simple lack of sex snowballing into something a lot more serious than just an adventure for additional variety. Generally the more money and power a man has, the greater the temptations and the more likely that problems appear.
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Re: Married but longing the life of a Bachelor

You just have the wrong wife. I would not trade my married life for anything under the sun. But the again my wife doesnt mind me going on sex trips abroad and never refuses me sex either. I have the best of both worlds, freedom sexually but a committed stable and loving partner at home. As long as I dont fall in love with anyone else, all is well. Which I have no desire or intention to do at all. You may think this is rare but not as rare as you think. I have other friends having similar relationships.
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Re: Married but longing the life of a Bachelor

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You just have the wrong wife. I would not trade my married life for anything under the sun. But the again my wife doesnt mind me going on sex trips abroad and never refuses me sex either. I have the best of both worlds, freedom sexually but a committed stable and loving partner at home. As long as I dont fall in love with anyone else, all is well. Which I have no desire or intention to do at all. You may think this is rare but not as rare as you think. I have other friends having similar relationships.
i would actually agree with this. i do have friends although not many, who have wives that let their husbands aka my friends enjoy outside as long as they do not bring the enjoyment home and do not wreck the family.
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i would actually agree with this. i do have friends although not many, who have wives that let their husbands aka my friends enjoy outside as long as they do not bring the enjoyment home and do not wreck the family.
😲 How do these guys even initiate the Convo with their wives that they going to have paid sex outside? My sense is majority won't allow.
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This is only applicable to husbands who provide well for the family.
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