Married my wife with a son

[Johnbass]

Tiagong fight for sole custody, depending on chances...
After win, request to change surname...
Bio father give up rights...
Then U happy family...
My divorcee fren says one...

[topcook1]

Originally Posted by Jessie

Even if she is Kervyn Lim?

Too much emotional baggage to claim . Better avoid the KC trap by single mum , few of my friends kena jia latz liao . Be a hero and in the end becomes zero.

[baby hunter]

Originally Posted by BiRd13

Not really true about this statement... As TS mentioned he and his wife is now married. As long as the mother is re-marry, the previous husband can don't pay for the alimony/maintainance to the kids. If he still have some 'conscience', maybe he will pay... But even he don't, he don't break the rules as well.


TS,

I think we have similar situation, or probably should say 'had'. I married my wife (now ex) whom is a Single mother of 2. Slightly different is that she and the father of the child, is not officially married. But their birth-cert indicate the guy as their father's name.

After I married with my wife, I went for adoption to have the 2 kids to change their surname under mine (Which in a way, quite regretted about this).

Due to some unforseen circumstance, my wife and I divorced... And well, I had to continue paying the alimony/maintainence to the kids till the youngest hit 21... Unless she re-marry again...

Under the family court order, maintainence for the kids is a must by the bio father, regardless the wife re-marry or not. it is only apply to the maintainence to the wife if she re-marry.