[chaoslord]

Being with WL is not for the faint hearted and having a committed relationship with one is challenging even in the best of times. They might be innocent when they come to SG, but working in a KTV would open them up to a world of material wants. The amount of vice one sees at a KTV is all around from colleagues, to bosses, to clients. Money corrupts, that's the truth.

You are still young and working your way up is admirable. There is nothing wrong being a waiter, it's an honest man's job and you have upward progression in your career. If you can get promoted to restaurant manager, it is a better path than PHV.

At the end of the day - the decision is yours to make alone. The reality is that the odds are against you as many bros have attested to relationships with WL. Always remember that your money is hard earned money. Go in with your eyes wide open.