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Originally Posted by Hoppip

Get a new hobby to distract yourself. For me I go find whores and fuck them crazy

This one is sex addiction on overdrive mode, 走火入魔

Originally Posted by bekind1984

Be strong bro ...all will be better
Last tine was easy...whenever i will remeber my ex will go GL for whoring
If works for u fuck off her memories and replace with new and better ones

Happy fuck
Cheers

Ok thank you. Now all the whores on high pricing. Will try to see if i can break the chain of going to FL or not.

Originally Posted by Daddy420

I would take my time to be with someone else emotionally but as I am healing, I would make myself distracted by keeping myself busy with my friends and flings. Ventured into sugar life and so far so good. I won't have to invest emotionally except financially.

Thank you, i trying to distract myself. I have no flings, don't know where to find.

Originally Posted by Lil'Tempt

Head out with friends; everything will be better'

Ok, though friends busy. The sad thing is 30s liao not so much female friends.

Originally Posted by norigo77

Meditation helps me to bring about a greater sense of self-awareness and acceptance that nothing is permanent in life, including relationships.

Ok this does not sound like a good thing for the offspring. Children won't be happy.

Originally Posted by EtherC

In time the memories fade and pain lessens until its eventually gone. For those more discerning they will just treat it as a part of life experience, and do better. Some will build a wall around themselves while others will continue falling for the same shit over.

Ok hope its gone soon.

Originally Posted by PandaFluff

There is no quick fix. Time does heal everything, that time differs from person to person.

What does help is getting your mind to think about other thing as not the loved one. This can be done by going out with friends, taking up a new hobby etc. One thing I can say is dont get a rebound gf unless you disclose this to the girl.

Alright sure. Will try to ask friends. Rebound girlfriend not very possible, so difficult to get gf nowadays, girls in SG these days easily think of any guy as freak. They only want the loudest happening guy.

Originally Posted by minnylo

focus on work...time will cure everything

Looking for work. I am working on international professional certification.

Originally Posted by hokkienme56

do thing that can distract u from ur thoughts like exercise, reading, or play sports. Me if i break up i just go gym, make myself bigger stronger and better. only way to continue is upwards

Thanks hifi!


After breaking up, becoming more nonchalant about things. For example, in dating app the attractive girl doesn't respond, no initiative to ask. I also don't care anymore.