[catlord]

Thanks for the sincere post, TS. I went through a very similar journey as you, but I didn't go to the MLs, I just went straight to GL. Yes it was very addictive initially. I also rawed a FL in GL and felt really stupid and low about it. But I didn't stop because of that. I stopped when I started getting laid with real girls (without paying). I realized that:

Pros of FLs:
- Better looks and sex skills

Pros of real girls:
- Connection and satisfaction from being with someone who genuinely wants to fuck you
- Knowing they're not fucking a hundred guys a week and I don't have to worry about my sexual health so much. If they're exclusive to you, it's even safe to raw them
- You can do other things with them than just sex, even build a relationship if you like her that way

After I started to be able to get laid with real girls regularly, there was just no point paying for sex anymore. Even though hookers can be much hotter and sluttier in bed than the average girl, I'd take a regular girl who genuinely likes me, who doesn't fuck other guys, who I can hang out and do activities with if I want to, over a hooker any day of the week.

I just think that as men, we just have the need to get laid. We shouldn't underestimate the importance of sex in a man's life. You're a horny and fit young dude, I'm sure you know how horny we are as men. Trying to suppress your sexual urges is futile and a life without sex is not a happy life, especially if your drive is high. If you're pent up it's gonna be all you can think about and you'll just end up wasting even more time watching porn or something.

We just have to be intelligent about how to obtain the sex we need. Too much of anything is bad, even sex with real girls. I found that out recently, I was juggling a roster of 6 girls that I was seeing, it was really really fun but it took up so much of my time and energy that could be used working on my business. These days I limit myself to 2-3x of sex a week. That frequency keeps me happy without taking up too much of my time.

While I don't do it anymore, I think paid sex definitely still has its place. For guys who are not able to consistently get laid with real girls, or guys who are too busy to date, paid sex is a very good solution. Just don't overdo it and don't do any stupid shit like rawing. You can just go to GL maybe 1x a week, pay $50-60, get in and get out in half an hour. Get your sexual needs met for very little time and money, so you can focus your attention elsewhere.