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Re: What is the most important factor in finding girls for sex?

This was just posted on my thread.

Good afternoon,

I received the following from Mike Haines several days ago. He is a red pill man and I don't always agree with his frames, methods, and actions, but this narrative is interesting and it illustrates some of his masculine character traits.

It also caught my attention because he approached an 18 yo girl n he used terms such as unconscious incompetence and unconscious competence, which I have alluded to a few times in this thread. Mike is 30 and he thinks he is old for an 18 yo SYT? Wait till he is an ah pek and then it would be a true litmus test of his masculine strength and emotional mastery.

I have done minimal editing to make it more readable.

Warbird,

Last Saturday afternoon I was sitting around at home bored.

Nightclubs still aren’t in Dublin yet, and I’ve quit online dating, so I have very little to do.

So I went out.

Not to get girls.

(Which I’m trying to avoid right now, for the purposes of spiritual growth.)

But simply to have an adventure.

So anyway, I had a couple of drinks and walked into the city.

There was a massive “bloc party” type thing going on.

Lots of hot chicks around…

I’m walking through the street and I see a rapturously beautiful girl leaning against the wall talking on her phone.

She’s young, small, blonde, with long tanned legs, wearing Air Force 1s and a short so skirt it barely covers her panties.

I walked past her.

A few yards away, I turned back to look at her. She looks at me and then looks away.

Fuck.

OK… ok… fine.

I walk back there, slowly, not looking at her.

Then when I’m a few feet away from her I hold out my hand.

She looks at me but she’s still on the phone.

“Hi, I’m Michael.”

“Hi…”

She puts the phone away immediately.

We get to talking and I sit down beside her.

Turns out she’s 18.

I tell her I’m 30, but she doesn’t seem to mind.

I start teasing her.

She says something (I can’t remember what), and I use it as an excuse to do a take-away.

I make a “weirded out” face and get up as if to leave. “Well, anyway, I gotta go…”

“Shut up!!” she smacks me, grinning.

I’m standing in front of her now.

I get her to stand up and hug me as if I’m about to leave.

We hug… I look into her eyes…

Pupils are massive, big goofy grin = green light.

I kiss her and she kisses me back hungrily.

Her lips are warm and sweet.

I explore her body with my hands.

Her ass is perfect.

So tight and round and perky.

We go off together and get lost in the night…

Not bad for the first cold approach in weeks.

It used to be that I would need a massive state of “momentum” to approach a girl this hot.

And even if I could approach without momentum, I wouldn’t be able to escalate.

But this was SMOOTH.

No momentum is needed.

No buildup.

No fake confidence.

Hadn’t cold approached a girl in maybe 6 weeks.

Hadn’t even spoken to another human being in 7 days.

Walk outside…

See a 9/10…

Approach…

Chat…

Kiss within 3 minutes…

Pull.

SMOOTH.

Effortless.

Natural.

Not trying to do anything.

No desire for any particular outcome.

Happy if she wants to talk to me.

Happy if she does not.

This is the kind of thing you can expect when you get good at this.


It goes from:

Unconscious incompetence

to

Conscious incompetence

to

Conscious competence

and finally to…

Unconscious competence.

That’s the sweet spot.

And that’s the end result of learning this or any other skill.

It becomes programmed into your muscle memory and reflexes so that you can do it without even thinking about it…

And without strenuous effort…

Without fear…

Without lust of result.

Talking to girls may be hard when you're starting out.

It might seem like you're fighting an uphill struggle to remember to do 13 different things, and it's just too complex.

But like anything else, it becomes more and more effortless over time.

Everything is hard before it's easy.


Yup, he was smooth and he didn't give two hoots about the outcome.

Cheers!

Bro WB
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