Re: Help appreciated
Your husband is not good...but Sis - you have wronged as well. It's important to keep this in mind. A marriage afterall takes 2 hands to clap and its clear here that is no longer the case.
From your narrative - there is no point in being together. People get married for the sake of having children and if he is so indifferent to the kid then there is no way he would ever improve in the future.
Your best option is to cut loss and seek a divorce. He would probably give you custody of the child since he is so indifferent. Monetary wise this might be a hit so work something out in terms of child maintenance. As a female you are protected by Woman's Charter but don't expect the moon here as he probably has evidence of your indiscretions outside which would be weighed against you in the judgement.
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