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Originally Posted by yitali
No I don’t watch porn regularly or masturbate. Have not done both for at last 6months to a year. I do get turned on and excited when I meet ML is really like, even intimate hugging just after shower gets me hard, of cos it soften after the massage session starts. If need to I want to see a doc but eveything I googled shows me ED
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So is it the gap due to massage (cos u say u got hard on but it softens during massage which is common I think)? Have you tried like skipping massage just go straight to the main deal? And sometimes it could be in the mind as well if u keep thinking it will not jerk off it won’t.
Actually since u do not masturbate regularly why not just try to do it once or twice a week now? Just go back to the mood and figure out for yourself what works for you, what touches gets you off faster and you can then guide the ML to do the same. Or you can also switch and do it yourself for a bit and alternate with her. Try different tricks to see if this helps you. For me I realized I need to see the ML enjoying my touch and give good sexy moans as well if not might also be hard cos no feels.
And sometimes you just need to find the right ML that suits your taste…