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Originally Posted by Johndick
Now these are words of wisdom. Too often we guys get caught up with the dick length, hardness, thickness and duration of bonk. Reality is, so long as no ED or PE, you can keep it hard continuously for 20 to 30 minutes and is no tiny birdie, it will serve the purpose. Most girls can't even climax with thrusting alone so the prowess of the dick is overhyped, unless we as guy only bother with our OWN pleasure, then sure, bang 1 to 2 hours and get the ego and sensation filled to hearts content. Doubt the girl will share the same sentiments. If experienced various partners (non commercial type of course), will understand most girls are satisfied with a 30 min or less actual sex if we bother to do a proper foreplay and actually bother to arouse her during the sex rather than just bonk away like a marathoner. Once a while maybe she horny Will want a long session but rarely will they want that as a norm because the pussy is delicate and will sore if prolonged banging, plus keep having their legs spread is aching unless she is physically very fit. So best not to get caught up with dick as the key to give the partner sextifaction. Use your hands, fingers, tongue, words, then even a 30 min sex is more memorable than a 2 hour thumping exercise. My 2 cents of opinion, don't need to agree.
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A man who knows. And of course it had to be my man of reason, sir Johndick.
It's just total fallacy and misunderstanding with many guy's approach to sex. Probably getting education from misleading sources like porn or their boasting friends. This is my study from learning off the most reliable sources - the girls themselves.
No! It is not about banging harder, faster and longer. But many guys like to think so, and by doing so, think he is the world's best lover.
Truth is, it's not. Stop thinking this and start listening to your partner - not just with ears, but with eyes, hands, lips and tongue. The rhythm of her breathing, the movements of her body, her responses to you..... all constantly feeding you information, and you need to read them. Start doing this and start being a better lover immediately.
I won't go into details because I'd end up writing a novel. Johndick's above post is good reading.
I'd just add that every girl's pleasure-likes are completely different from one another. Some like it deep, some not so, faster, slower, gentle, rough, left, right, long thrust, short jackhammers, a mix of all the above, etc etc. And this applies to one's oral skills too.
And yes, longer is not better. Most girls are truly sexually satisfied with up to 30 minutes of proper lovemaking (not including the romantic, sensual foreplay).
After she is glowing and truly satisfied with a few deep orgasms (or just one in some cases), it's really no point banging her pussy some more. Her pussy had enough and will soon get bored, and maybe numb, and even annoyed with the unwanted, prolonged, and excessive action. Give her a perfectly satisfying time. No need to go extra time unless it's only to boost your own misled ego. Mine is to give the girl max satisfaction, no more no less
