[expatamerican]

You just have the wrong wife. I would not trade my married life for anything under the sun. But the again my wife doesnt mind me going on sex trips abroad and never refuses me sex either. I have the best of both worlds, freedom sexually but a committed stable and loving partner at home. As long as I dont fall in love with anyone else, all is well. Which I have no desire or intention to do at all. You may think this is rare but not as rare as you think. I have other friends having similar relationships.