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Originally Posted by ZanShen
You are right. She is also older than me and has aged a lot. In addition, she has a low sex drive and is shy about being intimate.
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This is one of those times when you need to have a Difficult Conversation with the wife. I am guessing that you are the type who will avoid these types of conversations for fear of not being able to handle the conflict.
The wife needs to understand that a man's sex drive cannot be turned off. For some men it stays strong until old age, for some others it becomes a lot weaker (but that usually means they also develop a big drop in energy levels)
So what is it exactly that she expects you to do? Just wank off every time you want to do it?
I think that is what the ladies' answer tend to be. But as guys we know that this is wholly unsatisfactory.
The end result is usually quite predictable - the guy seeks sexstisfaction elsewhere and falls in love with a lady of the night.