perrymason32, I really enjoy your long romantic posts
You were not afraid to share your feelings for JJ to the cheongsters, and I salute you for that.
The only girl I was really attached to was Bai Hui, and her sudden departure deeply saddened me, as well as countless others here. When I started visiting Fei Er regularly, she also balek kampong... so it was a double whammy for me.
I think it's very rare to find genuine, level headed girls in GL, and when you find one you hang on to her for dear life. At one point you get torn between wanting her to stay and wishing her to return to China to start a new life.
Such is life, eh?