I can't say much. (But below is truth)
Well, my stepmum is a viet, she isn't really nice.
Though she came from rural area of vietnam, she became very materialistic in just a year after staying in singapore. And they got alot of tricks.
She sold her 2 motorbike there and came over based on her own means.
She acted innocently and became a tigress in months.
She can't afford LV , Gucci and pester my dad for it. Sigh....
Ok whatever it is....
Remember people do change as time goes by...
I think it's better to throw 5k at a marriage agency then to risk 10k at a whore. Remember one thing,
FACTS usually
CRUEL and
hard to acknowledge.
Last but not least, it's nice to see most bros here are voicing out and most of them are giving advice on more to protect yourself dude.
10k if nothing to you, you won't be seeking help here already.
For what i know even if you earn 3k monthly, still takes sometime to save 10k also. Hope all the best to you.