[lonelyfish]

Originally Posted by watmidoin

I cheong and quit on and off. Even though I am always capped for FJ, I do have BBBJs. The first time I quit, I decided to take a full STI checkup to be sure I'm clean. Luckily the results all good except my urine a lot bacteria. I was stupid enough back then to ask the doctor how come urine so much bacteria. He shot back, "you do all these things of course la!" He gave me some antibiotics and that's my first episode with STI testing. Have returned to cheonging recently and will go for regular testing. Sometimes, I will think what will happen if my luck runs out and the test results are bad. The only way to stay safe is to not cheong and instead get a partner who doesn't sleep around as well. Are you willing to have this trade off? That is the question you should be asking. To ask whether BBBJ will kena STI is asking the wrong question. There's no full proof way of avoiding STI if you cheong.

I don't mind this trade off to stick with one partner. But it is very difficult for me to get a life partner that satisfies my low requirement. I don't want a woman above a certain standard. So I chiong to fix my deprives. In the meantime, search (again) from overseas.