[rambutarn]

Any relationship can go as far as you want it to go as long as both partners consent to it. but in the case of MLs, so many factors affect why MLs dun consent or pretend to consent in the case of KCs. 1 of the main factors is their mindset/main goal coming to SG to work which is $$$. they are only in the business for the money and most, if not all of them know that this is not exactly a glorified trade, but in this trade, we stupid men with our small heads are paying for the whole experience, thats why MLs try to KC us, making each and everyone of us feel special to make us pay more. 1 way to get over that factor is to be loaded and totally buy her out of the trade by making her a taitai but how many of us can actually do that? most MLs earn more than us in a month (this trade is really easy money ignoring all the negative psychological and physical tradeoffs) and once they feel like they earned enough, they can literally rtc and lead their taitai lives by themselves or find a husband who do not know about her history so she wont be ashamed of her past.

Another important factor is them being humans and having the capability and rights of having romantic feelings for others. just like how some of us are unwilling to accept MLs as wives due to their history, MLs see us as tikopehs who spend our hard earned money just to get sexually satisfied and probably visit many other girls apart frm them. just as how they try to give the GFE to make each of their customer feel special, they will just imagine you doing the same to each girl you visit. it's just like how one night stands dont see high probabilities of turning into successful relationships cos women dun really want relationships that starts from sex or sth that is associated with cheating or fooling around in the first place. so putting yourself in their shoes, do u want such a relationship?

So what I'm trying to say is as long as it's consensual, you can literally do anything you want. thats why bros are "unlocking the levels" of MLs providing better and more services for the "special" one (or few), but what is the ultimate goal? even if you have invested a whole lot of time, efforts and money bringing MLs out on nice dates, to hotels, what's to stop them from just packing and disappearing once they decide they have sucked you dry(bad pun intended) and earned enough money out of us stupid cash cows?

Laying all the ugly truths on the table, to all bros out there (esp those that nv kena kc gaolat before), if you are having the same question in ur head (big or small) because you feel like u are "special" to ur ML, i advise you to think with ur big head. ask yourself this. how much are u willing to invest in a relationship like this, how much are u willing to lose and are u willing to take that risk? and dont forget how many bro robertos you are fighting with.

long story short, dont spoil market la nabei