Having my morning Kopi O now. No chio chicks to check out, so write a bit lor.
TLDR!!!
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Originally Posted by rahl
Actually likely that its those who cannot afford (financially, emotionally) who will try to buy happiness.
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There are many variants of course, but I think there are basically 2 types of men who tabao girls. And they use the girls very differently...
1. Trophy Girl - Men who do this are often very well to do. Rich. They would "keep" the girl and be their sugar daddy. This happened a lot in the atas KTV heydays. The girl would be kept, paid a hefty monthly allowance to do his bidding. Like not see others, have exclusive sex, go for outings and expensive shopping trips. It also serves to make him feel important and powerful. The Trophy Girl will be kept until the next girl who catchers his fancy comes along. The Trophy Girl is expendable and used primarily for his personal pleasure and to show off to other collectors. Sometimes love can creep into the relationship, but by and large, it's a business arrangement.
2. Love Substitute - this is the dangerous one. The punter usually is unlucky in love and finds it difficult to have any sort of meaningful relationship with the opposite sex. Suddenly the loving warm embrace of a pretty ML stirs feelings within him which were dormant for a long time. He is captivated , he can't control his overflow of pent up emotions. He saves money or uses his entire year end bonus to tabao the girl. Of course to make her have the same feelings, he buys her gifts and go to expensive restaurants regularly. He cannot lose face. She has sex with him and that justifies everything. He falls even deeper. The relationship strains his bank account , but he fears the girl might not treat him the same if she knew about his financial predicament. So he pretends nothing is wrong and continues to lavish on her. Of course , the time will come when she realizes things aren't the same. To her, it was a business arrangement so she starts to drift apart. He becomes lost, and is deeply hurt. She drifts even further and starts to see other people. He is financially damaged and emotionally crushed. He demands that she must love him for what he has given her. She doesn't reciprocate. He becomes bitter, livid and goes into a jealous rage.... There is no good ending here.
Fortunately, I am neither rich nor am I stupid. So I don't taobao
