[Balaallen123]

I'm 20 year old malay guy currently in ns. I'm always very horny and often have to pay for sex at least once in 2 months. Recently I've been very depressed about the myself. Loser Malay guy who never had a girlfriend, needs to pay for sex, still in ns.

I tried online dating but most of the girl on okc are fakes and I have low matching rate. 2-3 matches in like 3 months. As for tinder, I only get at most 4 matches throughout my whole 3 months of usage. Not kidding. Used a few decent picture of myself but i don't get any matches. Maybe I'm too ugly so I don't know. Girl friends say I'm sweet and charming. Don't talk about hygiene as i do take care of myself very well. Please do not stereotype. Maybe skin color might be an issue.

Then comes to sex. I'm very horny. Horny to the point where I would everyday think about fucking. As an nsf, my pay is peanuts compared to working adults. So having to spend $50 - $100 a month for sex is very challenging not to mention I'm supporting my widowed mother whos juggling between work and taking care of my younger sister. Back then when my dad was still alive, we were quite well to begin with. Only recently we had to budget down a little.

Im Wondering if anyone here can give me some advice on how to better manage my sexual urges and probably give me some advice on how to manage my depression.

If you have any tips on how to strike up a girl on tinder or okc to at least get them to go out with me then that would help too. I'm just really inexperienced in dating scene. I see some guys even ugly ones have tinder matches up to 100+. I tried to follow them but I never even get any matches.