15-07-2014, 10:35 AM
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Re: What can I do to get dates and eliminate my phobia
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Originally Posted by pearlnjewel
dudes here,
I know a lot of you are/were in my shoe, so I guess you may see from my point of view. Personally hope to get some advice.
I'm 25 this year, confuse about my life ahead. When i was younger in poly I could not seem to get attached, I thought maybe if i am older I will be able to get a girlfriend easier. Working now but can't seem to get to know any girls outside of work. I don't enjoy drinking, clubbing. I believe in spending what is needed, So I rarely shop or eat extravagantly. If a girl jio me go some fancy cafes or restaurant I will not mind paying, on my own i thrift.
Will it be the same situation when I am 35 yo and still single? How do i talk to girls and get a date. It seems majority of girls i like are attached, or are nice to chat with but nothing goes from there. I am also not comfortable with cold approach on the street, nor do i do well in big groups. Classes I attend I do not dare speak much to girls. I get anxious when i'm near girls, I have phobia from past hiccups.
I totally am sure that being frustrated about being single does not help, I was there. So i am cooling down my head for whats needed to be done. Hope to get some opinions on what could be done.
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Ts, i have a friend who can help you, his name is johnbass. if you can impart 10% of his skill, you will have no worries about gals. this is how he cheat his wife on bed
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