sexless male in 30s looking for fwb
 

hi all

i'm a total newbie in this. might get flamed but here goes..

im Chinese, in my mid 30s, married but have a sex-less relationship with my wife. she is not fond of it, and ever since we started the relationship years ago, we've had sex less than 10 times? none in the last year. but still we managed to produce a coming 1 year old baby.. geesh. might go sexless for the foreseeable future.

so here i am, virgin the past year, and i am longing to have a sexual relationship with a lady whom might be in a similar situation. hoping to be great friends with benefit but yet at the same time respect each other's family priorities.

im (very) tall, dark and (quite?) handsome.. slim to athletic build. interests are basketball, running, sports, video games.. pretty normal. if there is anyone interested please let me know by pm. if any guy is empathise with me and wanna be friends just to chat about these stuff and share tips, feel free to comment or msg me too!

that's all.. thanks for reading :)

Re: sexless male in 30s looking for fwb
 

I pity you, by right sex is a good way to bridge a relationship / marriage. See what happen when wife doesn't give. Nature of life, I think women must understand this part of man. It takes 2 hands to clap

Re: sexless male in 30s looking for fwb
 

Ur wife dun like sex or dun like sex with u?

Can intro? Try convert her to a vixen....

Re: sexless male in 30s looking for fwb
 

poor guy...

Re: sexless male in 30s looking for fwb
 

I agree bro. Just not working for me..

Thanks for emphasising..

She has low sex drive. And now shaky relationship with her plus she's always tires so sex is hard to approach. She's totally not into these things haha typical super conservative girl

Re: sexless male in 30s looking for fwb
 

do something like going for short trip, improve your foreplay etc.

I always spend time to massage my girls with oil/lotion.It always works for me. They always get aroused and ends up with a wonderful sex.

Re: sexless male in 30s looking for fwb
 

Interesting!

Re: sexless male in 30s looking for fwb
 

aiyo.

go see doctor and work it out.

or just go for FL, transactional... no need commitment

Re: sexless male in 30s looking for fwb
 

thanks for the advise! i always massage her, just without oil/lotion haha. no luck so far. will see how it goes :)

Re: sexless male in 30s looking for fwb
 

im in the same situation as you bro, wife turns sexless after marriage. machiam kena scam hahahaha

Re: sexless male in 30s looking for fwb
 

I don’t understand as a female though - then her needs how..?

Everytime initiate the response is no mood, tired etc etc. I also cannot understand, maybe she lost her vagina along with childbirth

Re: sexless male in 30s looking for fwb
 

U need to massage with oil or lotion. It is different compared to dry massage. Trust me. Give it a try. I used my scented lotion for massages. So far no lady can resists yet. AND I am just a regular Uncle.

Re: sexless male in 30s looking for fwb
 

Me different leh, my laogong sexdrive ⏬

I've very high sex drive. Wanna have coffee together sometime?