What are your cheating experiences?
 

Do you condone to cheating?
Or how do you usually cheat your other half?
Share down below!

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define whats cheating first?
different people have different definition of cheating.

some say must have real feelings then consider cheating
some say must have penetration then consider cheating
some say even bj or hj received from someone else is cheating
there are people who actually believe that when you looking at other girls = you're cheating

I think cheating basically means= hiding/lying about anything (flirting/feeling/sex)

Boils down to just keeping the fact away.

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If you have to hide it from your partner, it is considered cheating already.
Any thing that you cannot share with him or her. Anything.

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Huh...i hide my money from my partner also considered cheating ah?..lol

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Doing something which you don't want your partner to do to you.. that is cheating to me. If you are using we chat to chat and meet girls, can you accept that she uses we chat to chat and meet guys? No standard answer... you know yourself best

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So technically if i dont love my wife anymore and dont mind her having a toyboy outside and i go on with fucking girls outside i am not considered cheating?...yayyy..that makes sense...

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Only if you tell her you think like this and she agrees. If you agree to give her the license to eat outside, you need to inform her she has the license to eat outside right?

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Yes. Why are you with someone and hiding stuffs from her?

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We all have secrets from our partners/friends/parents/anybody who matters in our lives. There is no one we share everything with. Except maybe a paid therapist.

It is perfectly healthy and natural.

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i go eat lunch with my female colleague, just us 2 person. I lied about it to my wife before (now ex wife).
Female colleague was the fugly bui bui type. But she's a nice person. So confirm i have no sexual thoughts about her.
Then just nice her cousin saw us as we all work in CBD area. Told my wife. My wife kicked up a big fuss over it.
That was also why i initially lied to her about it. I dont see the point of kicking up any fuss over such issue as colleague having lunch together. Lied to her because i dont want to waste time arguing over such minor useless things.

So, is this cheating?:confused:

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You claimed you love her. And she is your girlfriend. Not your wife. Everyone's got their own beliefs. If she doesnt believe in full sex before marriage, you either congratulate yourself that she's a gem or you break off the ties and find another woman whom matches your beliefs.
U accept it and appreciate her for who she is or you move on.
No point hanging on or arguing. All it does is drive divisions in relationships.

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Thank you doc.. this is comforting as I just created my first account.

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