Maintain healthy married sex life
 

I like to seek advice how do you maintain a reasonable amount of sex life in your marriage?

Only in mid 30s, but very bored with sex with same person after so many yrs together. Averaging once a month only. No desire for more anymore.

But visiting new girls, meeting new girls excite me. But it's just not healthy to keep doing this at the side.

It is a blessing in disguise your wife only require once a month actually, there are divorce cases whereby the women ask for daily sex only resting during her periods... that is the bright side.

Discover new and exciting ways to f**k your wife. It helps. Watch AV and explore new styles, go different hotels. If those don’t help, car sex, playground, public toilets, stairways, industrial buildings are the new craze.

Otherwise, looking for FL and ML will help, I don’t find it unhealthy.. just have to dig into your wallet real hard.

FB or what they call FwB today helps as well. But difficult to find one once past 40, as the women regardless of age look for younger men, like us looking for SYT. I stopped FwB because having a tough time getting one after reaching 50 and still looking hot.

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You are not alone in the world

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Do more sex stop alot of boredom in men life to eat out? Im always looking for opportunity but then it's not healthy I feel.

Another issue is not even the frequency, but the lack of desire. This is a tough one.

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if me, i will think of sexy girl photo like i seen before in sugarbook when i do this thing with my wife. Only then can erect normally. If not, hard to get normal sex life. But of course, cannot tell wify about this

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there are many ways to do so. After you view people comment, you can choose the ideas that you are able to do

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How about view more sex videos and unlock the skills?

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U r in yr 30s just once a mth ?
U don't want or yr wife don't want ?
Tats the age group tat need more :)

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Its not "okay" to publish sordid details about Jimbos sex life, but it is "legal" to do so, and any law that would restrict that allowance is a human rights violation.

To paraphrase Jimbo.

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This is pretty normal.
If you only eat plain white rice every day, you will be tired of it also after 1 month. So that is why you need to eat white rice with some different dishes each day.

Try for cosplay. Let your partner put on different costumes each other days and start off with different style of foreplay will most likely entice you with sexual fantasy.

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twice a week is enough.

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Organize a gang bang with your wife to spice it up

:D

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Its the same person. As long as it is the same person, he is bored.
Do what also n o use. He need fresh blood.

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Been buying a shitload of cosplay

started with Japanese school girl uniforms, then gym shorts and tops, then slutty nurse, secretary, wedding, then crotchless panties, and saw gatita use a vibrator and finger sleeve so I got one too

honestly, as a man putting in a lot of effort, it makes me tired too, but the FB doesn't put the emphasis, what to do

Try your best loh, when all fail, fuck it, go out and settle your urges.

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dude, have you discuss this with your wife? If you really treasure this marriage, go see a couple counsellor, now there are counsellors to help couple on their sex life. Google it.

If you let this continue, the r/s will deteriorate and one day, you will find that your love for her is no longer there. By then marriage counselling won't work.

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bored for getting to have sex with wife?
many men wanna have sex with wife also cannot ah...

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Working from home for the last 1.5yrs have definitely taken a toil on healthy marriage life. Using Bedroom, dining room, hall, kitchen as working area, no longer have the kind of feeling of wanting to get intimate at home.

Tried doing it with wife in the shower, quickie in carpark and in-law house (while they r out). Trust me, uncle me already in my 50s also can reignite some excitement feeling in wife, just need to get away from those mentally stressful area or stuff that u are feeling day to day, try something new.

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I am always very curious why people have such good sex life still comes in here.

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Try watching porn togather and talk about the fantasy, it may spice up things for you if your wife is receptive and responsive to it:p:p:p

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Because good is relative, and those who know they have it good, sometimes just wanna flex. Lol