Sex after 40
 

hi brother out there...

i am 41. and this year suddenly realize that i hardly can do 2 times in a night anymore. unlike when i was before 40, i can do 3 times a night w new girl.

also not as hard as before. did you guys experience same thing or i experience this too early?

i tried tongkat ali but only help if i take. if i stop then go back to same thing

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[QUOTE=daniel6969;20032628]hi brother out there...

i am 41. and this year suddenly realize that i hardly can do 2 times in a night anymore. unlike when i was before 40, i can do 3 times a night w new girl.



Bro, You need to meet the right partner. I am mid forties and I can still do 3 times per night..... 1 or 2 times is normal. If meet a good partner, 3 times will be nice......

Go for a short trip, weekend will be the adventure.......

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Any stories to share during this CB period?

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I'm at 50.
For me, hvg a good sex chemistry with gf is my style, there's love in us also.
I'll build the mood on day of meet, in room, with love mood, chemistry & controls, session last us like 45 mins, full sweat over.
Then, after a nap of > 2 hrs., we hv 2nd round, last even longer.

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MUST exercise...key thing is to get the heart and circulatory system going.

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Yes this i agree, go jog at least once or twice a week or if dun like jog cycling is another one.

I'm 48 now but max 2X sometimes 3 but few yrs back only manage for 1 time. Then I start to exercise and take care of diet abit and it works but start slowly.

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New gal I can do 3, 1 cim 1 fj 1 anal.

Old gal, 1 fj sleep thru out

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Depends on your health, diet and lifestyle bro. Whether you exercise regularly or not. Are you single or married or married with kids. Do you have a stressful job working long hours.

Best condition is when you are healthy, fit, get plenty of sleep and least stress - if you are single and have no family burdens and worries. Anytime, 2 or 3 times.

For a typical family man, sometimes late 30s already burned out from exhaustion, due to work, family issues, house / kid chores - totally no energy left. And sometimes is mistaken as ED but actually is not.

Anyway nowadays there are a lot of options, don't need to suffer in silence if you need doctor help. But if your root cause is health / stress / burn-out issue, meds don't help that much.

Don't be too disheartened, with our modern lifestyle it's common for lack of libido to start in 40s, why do you think meds and all kind of pharmaceutical aids, testo therapy and all that - selling like hot cakes? Majority suffering from the same problem as you :rolleyes: and it is perfectly natural.

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U love the gal, should enjoy.

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For me, depends on the girl whether can turn me on.
i m 50s retired residing overseas .
Pre covid few months, on few occasions can do 5 shots in 24 hours on 2-3 girls STs.
1 month averages abt 30-40 shots.
2 shots in 1-2 hours sometimes.
All short sessions abt 20 mins.
Genes also important, seems my sperm regeneration rate is quite fast.
No enhancing drugs consumed.
Thank God to be blessed.

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Rest....Exercise.....healthy diet.....I guess you need all these to build up the stamina. For me, rest is very important. No frequent masturbation and always have at least 7 hours of sleep.

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Question : Does smoking has an effect on this as well?

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Late 30s...now watch porn also no mood to Mari kita!:D Partner is really critical in bringing up the mood to piak!:D

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Heard-say so YES, especially smoking MENTHOL favor kind of cigarettes affect more on the performance.

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Its part of life and the gradual decline is inevitable. Like what alot of bros mentioned, a healthy lifestyle will slow but will not stop it. Genes definitely play a part too.

And i agree with another comment - porn does nothing for me these days. Guess is just de-sensitized!!:o

anything that stress your cardiovascular system will have some effect. But if you are a smoker, at least there is something significant you can stop and hope to see improvement. For those healthy ones, no bad habit, exercise regularly but still got marikita problem, then what else is there to do? Time to see doc. Actually a lot hinges on genetics as well.

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exercise and watch your diet play a critical part.

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I too experienced this in my early 40s. Seasonal bec of work stress. It's normal. The ability to stay hard dwindles each year past 40s. Then I used Cialis. It's not that I have ED. I can erect but it wont stay hard for long. Maybe 20 mins. With Cialis, 45 mins no problem. I dont even have to try. Two rounds, three rounds no problem too. You should try.

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Of course exercise helps. But the fruits are slow and marginally incremental. It is not as though when you exercise regularly you will be back to your 20s humping around for hours

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I disagree on the part on slow fruits.
This is my own experience.
Started on cialis, viagra at 35,to get harder and faster errection. Used for 5 years, then effectiveness started to drop with the same dosage. Driving everyday, hardly exercised.

Then i stopped eating it, ate omega 3 and garlic pills regularly, complementing with exercise....pull ups, sit ups and runs...
After 1 month, can feel the difference.
Now after 2 years, dont really need viagra anymore.

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u are normal lah.... dun listen to too many tao kang comment... simi 3 time 4 time... zzzzz:rolleyes:

I am 50, now can only have about 30mins of "Oral sex" weekly with wife. ie. We scold each other only. Zero sex life.

But if given chance to have sex with my younger female staff, I think I can do it least 2 rounds in 1 hour.

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Many says yes but i don't really believe .... i'm 47 smoke almost 2 packs daily no problem. But i do go cycling quite often nowadays.:)

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I don't think doing x number of times a night is affected by age or anything..
For myself I was never fond of it. Doing once is enuff for me
Maybe it has to do with horniness

For hardness issue.. it could probably be due to age..
You need maintenance just like a car.. go try seeking reliable JG

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ironically, women are hungry as hell when they hit 40, really fun to be with them

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Hahaha.. I'm in the same boat.

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Without running, can do what other exercises at home?

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Brisk walking for an hour or 5Km whichever come first!

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Get a young FL to tryout...:p

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genuine good comments:)