sexless male in 30s looking for fwb
 

hi all

i'm a total newbie in this. might get flamed but here goes..

im Chinese, in my mid 30s, married but have a sex-less relationship with my wife. she is not fond of it, and ever since we started the relationship years ago, we've had sex less than 10 times? none in the last year. but still we managed to produce a coming 1 year old baby.. geesh. might go sexless for the foreseeable future.

so here i am, virgin the past year, and i am longing to have a sexual relationship with a lady whom might be in a similar situation. hoping to be great friends with benefit but yet at the same time respect each other's family priorities.

im (very) tall, dark and (quite?) handsome.. slim to athletic build. interests are basketball, running, sports, video games.. pretty normal. if there is anyone interested please let me know by pm. if any guy is empathise with me and wanna be friends just to chat about these stuff and share tips, feel free to comment or msg me too!

that's all.. thanks for reading :)

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I pity you, by right sex is a good way to bridge a relationship / marriage. See what happen when wife doesn't give. Nature of life, I think women must understand this part of man. It takes 2 hands to clap

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Ur wife dun like sex or dun like sex with u?

Can intro? Try convert her to a vixen....

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poor guy...

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I agree bro. Just not working for me..

Thanks for emphasising..

She has low sex drive. And now shaky relationship with her plus she's always tires so sex is hard to approach. She's totally not into these things haha typical super conservative girl

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do something like going for short trip, improve your foreplay etc.

I always spend time to massage my girls with oil/lotion.It always works for me. They always get aroused and ends up with a wonderful sex.

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Interesting!

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aiyo.

go see doctor and work it out.

or just go for FL, transactional... no need commitment

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thanks for the advise! i always massage her, just without oil/lotion haha. no luck so far. will see how it goes :)

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im in the same situation as you bro, wife turns sexless after marriage. machiam kena scam hahahaha

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I don’t understand as a female though - then her needs how..?

Everytime initiate the response is no mood, tired etc etc. I also cannot understand, maybe she lost her vagina along with childbirth

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U need to massage with oil or lotion. It is different compared to dry massage. Trust me. Give it a try. I used my scented lotion for massages. So far no lady can resists yet. AND I am just a regular Uncle.

Re: sexless male in 30s looking for fwb
 

Me different leh, my laogong sexdrive ⏬

I've very high sex drive. Wanna have coffee together sometime?

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haha same problem then.. we might hit it off.. ;)

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Yea, same feeling ! Macham kanna scam 😂.

Wondering if there is such thing as wife sex drive high, but husband sex drive low meh? Really do exist in sg ?!

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haha bro hi^5

i guess it does exist, just much rarer.

but i do envy those with both high sex drive :)

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Unfortunately I am also one of the rare ones who married a man with low to zero sex drive.

Up u bro. 😊

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Based on my little experience, i concluded with this gist: if you make a girl wet during foreplay by kissing on her face (without touching her boobs, pussy, or lower body parts and without removing her clothes), she won't resist and wants it multiple times. At least, this is true in my case. I always make them so wet just by kissing on their face and they remove their and mine clothes by themselves. They are ready for penetration and say me thank you for giving them the best sex of their life. Most of them wanted to meet me on next day again but i usually refused because i have a work and stress. It is possible that you even could not get a chance of foreplay and she refused it before this stage. In that case, whenever she has a mood and ready for full session, give her such an intense forplay that she gets addicted.
I would say you must reconsider your past sessions and see if you need improvements in some areas. It might solve your problem. But it is also true that everyone lost some sex drive with time, and this is true not only for women but also for men. I myself lost some sex drive because now i have more work and very little time for sex. Before i always ejaculate at a minimum of 7 times a week but now only for 2,3 times.

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For me it’s the neck, ears, shoulder blades followed by a good massage, including yoni and on boobs to make her wet, best if she squirts. However, age is catching up and I’m getting too lazy to give foreplay.

Also from 6-7x a day to now once (mostly) or twice a day, still manage 5-6days a week. Didi may be oversexed and tend to underperform these days... Ive experiences having a high SD partner who can match or exceed my high SD really gratifying, but may not be so for her.

Read somewhere that guys have a lifetime quota of 5000, but I think I’ve exceeded that... however, I hope to keep going till I can no longer. So that there will be no regrets. Eg:

https://pics.me.me/thumb_18-30-40-50...y-49558781.png

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Exbro, your latest post shouted clearly that you are really fucking despicable and cunning bastard!!
Cox you gave naive gals a single chicken wing (Free Trial massage)each and then took back the whole chicken (Paid fees and FREE Fucks) from each of them.

No doubt you fucking succeeded in reaching 5000 by fucking countless naive gals for FREE! Obviously, you have no ethics whatsoever as you use a variety of tricks to make naive gals/bros fall into believing your yoni/boob massages work wonders for their pussies and breasts or their women by fucking them for FREE after first meetups!

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I'II chip in and help your relationship. Some women into cuckold. Some get arouse and you just pop your did in when the time is right!

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If you need more than thrice a week, pm me pls. I am chinese/m/40. Minimum X3 a week. Do a search for my past threads for my conquest :)

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Thanks bro.

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Wah.. Lol i saw you have been offered for etc needs and stuff.. Lol i should play in too... Hahaha.. Well pm me for friendship and such.
35/m / chinese mixed(more chinese) / ex model / well hung rod 😂

Re: sexless male in 30s looking for fwb
 

Thank you all for your propositions, this is TS thread not mine. Not looking for any fucks right now.

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I was zapped for lashing out at Exbro who is out to trick naive girls into trying his free trial massages. No big deal!!!!! He got so many points yet he is cash strapped to chiong FLs lol

if he has no fucking money, he just uses his hand and watch Jap AV porn freely and legally! :D

Even if he needs a good fuck, he just saves up to pay hot FLs to fuck him!:D

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wow..my wife hv so much less sex drive...dreaming of getting a woman with higher sex drive thn me..